frederickofthep
62 Santa Rosa, United States
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My self-summary
"If the doors of perception were cleansed everything would appear to man as it is, infinite..." - William Blake

Frederick of the Playa here. Realized I am an Animest religiously since psychedelics showed all has spirit energy: rocks, wind, thermonuclear weapons, even stupid stuff. We're all one, man! Hard to remember, though.
Seeking woman for sensual encounters and/or friendship. Am easy going w/o expectations. Open to monogamy, polyamory or other unknowns; very possibly romance. I am grounded & able to commit, if applicable. Prefer to meet in safe place & see if there is a reason to proceed.

Interests:
You
Burning Man (not participating recently after 18 consecutive years since 1997.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahv_1IS7SiE
https://www.facebook.com/groups/112325115784/
Grateful Dead
Dancing
Ending the war on some drugs
Not in any particular order.
What I’m doing with my life
Practicing an attitude of gratitude. Especially indoor plumbing: Reveling while it lasts: on-playa plumbing is mostly absent & our 'regular' urban future is uncertain...
Am comfortable w/ who I am. Increasing consciousness, sometimes painfully, but always worth it. Paying attention to cultivate self awareness. This includes noticing when I wear Judge Frederick's robe (often) & evaluating proper, if any, response.
Dance whenever possible, if the music is right, mostly @ home. Riding my lovely bicycle, do the gym. These are my meditations. Work is a full-time job. Garden seasonally. Skipping the playa this year, again. Adulting: paying off roof & being frugal! I know, boring...
I’m really good at
Oral skills, both verbal & other. Self-reflection in unusual circumstances always; getting better in the 'regular' moments. No longer pro photographer yet still have the eye. conversation, when mutual...
The first things people usually notice about me
Ask them. I am transparently a fan of IPA, especially Russian River Blind Pig & Bear Republic Racer 5. It might be obvious that I am into the Dead. My FB posts can be annoyingly focused on drug-policy reform. Unashamed & out about psychedelics. Oh, cut my hair after 3+ years...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Be Here Now
Doors of Perception
Fear & Loathing Vegas/Campaign Trail
Three Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch
Crime & Punishment
One Hundred Years of Solitude
Reason magazine, KPFA radio, National Review (to get their side of the policy issues), The Press Democrat analogue hard copy.

Sam Harris https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OA2cUyuDC14

Dr. Strangelove, Blade Runner, Forbidden Planet, et al. Cabaret (anything Fosse). Also, American Hustle, Lucy & Her recently.
Not much time for TV (no cable) but include Twilight Zone & Firefly & revisiting Voyager & Deep Space Nine.
Firefly series: oh so many times.
Grateful Dead to Neil Young to Hank Williams Sr. to Bach to Beethoven & Dylan.
Prime rib, Ahi, asparagus, broccoli, fresh lettuce, double peppperoni/jalapenos & more;
& very hot peppers in general...
The six things I could never do without
Air/Water/Food/Earth/Sun/Moon

(Well, could lose Earth/Sun/Moon if on Interstellar voyage...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My son founded the National Cannabis Association & altho pride goeth before the fall, I am proud.

Pleasuring a woman, good food, home improvements & advancing my consciousness:

Terence McKenna
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OEG0syeAo4U

The Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies (MAPS)

https://www.facebook.com/mapsmdma
On a typical Friday night I am
Never know for certain. Perhaps relaxing making dinner, usually on the grill &/or listening to music or spoken word, maybe @ the backyard fire pit. Might visit the Belvedere, Sprangers or Russian River Brew Pub (if no line) just to be social & get out of the house. Lately it's just another early night...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Common knowledge, I wear knock-off Uggs against the advice of female friends. I don't care what people think, they are comfortable & I have no fucks to give. Oh, I use harsh language often.

Am inherently honest. Ask me anything...
You should message me if
Looking for a woman who is comfortable w/ herself yet has room for someone to share experiences and/or life with; honest & free communication is essential, sense of humor a plus. Local to Santa Rosa area preferred & I won't see 'Liked', so please message. Meet for coffee or a beer. Will make a nice dinner for you, menu is your call. Perhaps more?
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