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My self-summary
"If the doors of perception were cleansed everything would appear to man as it is, infinite..." - William Blake

Frederick of the Playa here. Realized I am an Animest religiously since psychedelics showed everything has spirit energy: rocks, wind, thermonuclear weapons, even stupid stuff. We're all one, man! Hard to remember, though.
Seeking woman for sensual encounters and/or friendship. Am easy going w/o expectations. Open to monogamy, polyamory or other unknowns; very possibly romance. I am grounded & able to commit, if applicable. Prefer to meet in safe place & see if there is a reason to proceed.

Burning Man (not participating recently after 18 consecutive years since 1997.
Grateful Dead
Ending the war on some drugs
Not in any particular order.
What I’m doing with my life
Practicing an attitude of gratitude. Especially indoor plumbing: Reveling while it lasts: on-playa plumbing is mostly absent & our 'regular' urban future is uncertain...
Am comfortable w/ who I am. Increasing consciousness, sometimes painfully, but always worth it. Paying attention to cultivate self awareness. This includes noticing when I wear Judge Frederick's robe (often) & evaluating proper, if any, response.
Dance whenever possible, if the music is right, mostly @ home or goofy @ gym. Riding my lovely bicycle. These are my meditations. Work is a full-time job. Garden seasonally. Skipping the playa this year, again. Adulting: paid off roof & being frugal! I know, boring. Learning to listen, but the voice in my head is hard to suppress..
I’m really good at
Oral skills, both verbal & other. Self-reflection in unusual circumstances always; getting better in the 'regular' moments. No longer pro photographer yet still have the eye. conversation, when mutual...
The first things people usually notice about me
Ask them. I am transparently a fan of IPA, especially Russian River Blind Pig & Bear Republic Racer 5. It might be obvious that I am into the Dead. My FB posts can be annoyingly focused on drug-policy reform. Unashamed & out about psychedelics. Oh, cut my hair after 3+ years...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Be Here Now
Doors of Perception
Fear & Loathing Vegas/Campaign Trail
Three Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch
Crime & Punishment
One Hundred Years of Solitude
Reason magazine, KPFA radio, National Review (to get their side of the policy issues), The Press Democrat analogue hard copy. Other...

Sam Harris

Dr. Strangelove, Blade Runner, Forbidden Planet, et al. Cabaret (anything Fosse). Also, American Hustle, Lucy & Her recently.
Not much time for TV (no cable) but include Twilight Zone & Firefly & revisited Voyager & Deep Space Nine.
Firefly series: oh so many times. Was first view of Enterprise & just finished 2 views of Westworld!
Grateful Dead to Neil Young to Hank Williams Sr. to Bach to Beethoven & Dylan.
Prime rib, Ahi, asparagus, broccoli, fresh lettuce, double pepperoni/jalapenos & more;
& very hot peppers in general...
Six things I could never do without

(Well, could lose Earth/Sun/Moon if on Interstellar voyage...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My son founded the National Cannabis Association & altho pride goeth before the fall, I am proud.

Pleasuring a woman, good food, home improvements & advancing my consciousness:

Terence McKenna

The Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies (MAPS)
On a typical Friday night I am
Never know for certain. Perhaps relaxing making dinner, usually on the grill &/or listening to music or spoken word, maybe @ the backyard fire pit. Might visit the Belvedere, Sprangers or Russian River Brew Pub (if no line) just to be social & get out of the house. Lately, it's just another early night...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Common knowledge, I wear knock-off Uggs against the advice of female friends. I don't care what people think, they are comfortable & I have no fucks to give. Oh, I use harsh language often.

Am inherently honest. Ask me anything...
You should message me if
Looking for a woman who is comfortable w/ herself yet has room for someone to share experiences and/or life with; honest & free communication is essential, sense of humor a plus. Local to Santa Rosa area preferred & I won't see 'Liked', so please message. Meet for coffee or a beer. Will make a nice dinner for you, menu is your call. Perhaps more?
The two of us