35Beverly, United States
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My self-summary
(I feel this description is ever changing)

I value the little things in life. I want to make a difference in the lives of others , have more experiences than "stuff", travel and explore, have adventures of all types, play outside.

take time to get to know me and not pass by at first glance you don't know what you might be missing out on ;)
I know what I want and what is important, it takes a little time and is not instantaneous, I'm an open book!

I want you like me for me and for all I am, with a respectful and open mind...not for what I can get for you
The most successful relationships are with two independent people....
"Its not the breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath way"
What I’m doing with my life
A variety of things......doing what I enjoy.....affecting people positively.....bringing new challenges and experience to the world.....traveling.....enjoying myself......
Having outdoor adventures...
Work with kids in social work and hope to break into student development on the college and high school level as a professional.
I’m really good at
I am a well rounded person. I do anything and everything sports or outdoor related. I just continue to try new things. I am not really an “expert” at anything.

here's a random list.....
skiing, teaching snowboarding, guiding rafts, cooking without recipes, grilling, cat napping, bargain hunting, volunteering, playing in the snow, reading maps, mural panting, paddling, cuddling, giving massages, Frisbee, pint glass collecting from bars, setting up a tent, sharpening skis, eating cheese, smiling, playing with kids, chipping golf balls, playing and coaching lacrosse, surfing my boat, one handed clapping, starting a fire, pumping gas, growing facial stubble, running around barefoot, putting on flip flops, misplacing glasses, mixing lemonade, first aid, rolling my tongue, packing for a trip, maneuvering through white water, helping others, creating bucket lists....what else....just ask...
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short. It is what it is, Hope you can handle it. I look younger than I am, so I have been supporting a light beard,
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - murder mysteries, adventure stories, how to, travel, good variety......more engaged with books on tape/cd as an auditory learner.

Movies - Generally a movie buff, action, comedy, chick flicks, dramas, horror, cartoons, etc.

Shows - I have gotten into the binge watching crazy. I don't pay that much attention to new shows coming out but then later get hooked on them, then need to get caught up on multiple seasons at a time......How I Met Your Mother, Dexter, the 4400, The Firm, Parenthood, Law and Order SVU, the Office, Royal Pains, Psych......what else can you get me hooked to?

Music - I listen to a variety of stuff. I have many mixes, but recently I like more acoustical, live, and covers performances.
Acoustical Sunrise on the radio is excellent!

Food - I am not picky, willing to try anything!
I will eat all kind of cuisines...cheese and sometimes bacon makes everything better
Six things I could never do without
my car
a backpack
outdoor toys (paddle, snowboard, pfd, etc)
warm hat

being near water or mountains

mmm, I can't count apparently
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If I had a lot of money and financially stable, I would spend much of my time volunteering my time.
the future
next travel destination, vacation, road trips
sports and recreation, things I want to try
job opportunities
where I could relocate to
fun activities I can do with mentees/youth
young people in my life, friends kiddos
gas prices
how to save pennies for bigger things
making things better, always wanting to improve myself
expanding the social circle

What the word "dating" infers. I just want to simply find a connection and go from there too much pressure with dating?

"Ladies… real men do exist; there aren’t many of us, but we’re survivors and will be around for a while. Come find us."
On a typical Friday night I am
Never a typical Friday night.....out and about, going on a road trip, laying low and relaxing, I just go with the flow, I'm up for suggestions !
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
What do you want to know? ask me

recently, been thinking about being a stay at home dad in the future, because of my positive interactions with youth
You should message me if
you are in New England, I have done the distance thing before few hour road trip, it can be rewarding in my opinion. Don't let distance be the deal breaker.

You are open minded and try new things
You have respect for others interests
You realize that first impressions that are made right off the bat could very well be completely different from another interaction in a different environment or setting
You like to explore and have adventures
You know what you want out of life, want to make a real connection
You want something real

-Anything mentioned in the summary makes sense to you.
The two of us