31 Hayward, United States
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My self-summary
If you are someone views Love&relationship as a entertainment, and women just a toy. then you may not need to keep reading the words as following....... something about me, hmm... i'm passionate, loving person. Love all the beautiful things! I have gained my BA in China, majored in Graphic design, and also gained another Degree in bay area. I was a very athletic person(maybe you couldn't tell only from my pics,lol). I served in hurdle team for years in college.
However, I have injured in a race. Anyway, now i'm here, in USA, was just wanted to see what likes in the other side of the planet. Unexpectedly, i'm kinda stucked here in the US, it isn't mean a negative way, maybe it's a life stage. I was searching and learning about myself, move from China to US,trying to find for a way, somehow to understand and be closer to myself.
However i found out, maybe it is not necessary to do so, since the world and surrounding are constantly changing, which requires people change as well to fit into the changes of the world. Then i started to believe, maybe there is nothing could last forever, a Job, happiness, sadness, love, family......etc. people come and go in life, why bother to worry that something we couldn't change?! why bother to chase after someone we wouldn't able to be with?! Why bother to worry what future would leads if you haven't try to live and enjoy in present?
I worked in a Preschool as teacher. being with kids makes me very happy and beloved, because i do love them. i'm often value myself as a CHILDLIKE Adult (being playful like a child but thoughtful and caring like a adult) instead of CHILDISH.

A man I would like to be. A ideal man would be who knows what is love and capable to love, who knows what he wants in life, and strongly stick with his believes! A man who is confident, knows how to keep balance and help others keep balance in the relationship. which means, he knows when to not give too much and make the girl takes love as granted and not to give too little and make girl feel neglected!
What I’m doing with my life
define and redefine myself, till i get the right definition of me!:)
I view life as a full circle, my life journey is to experience the fullest, to gain, to lose, to at least love and beloved. It's sad too see people are walking back and fourth in a patial of the life circle till the end of life.
I’m really good at
i really good at reading mind, lol maybe many of you would say, come on, you think you are a forture teller!? what i mean reading mind is matter of how you caring the people around you and being observetive. hmm. beside, i would say, i'm very good at have meaingful conversation and also a good listener sometimes when i want to. Design, being creative, yes, i love art and music. i was play violin for years! salsa Dance is my new favorite activity!
The first things people usually notice about me
You decide
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
making the list........!!!
The six things I could never do without
Life basic supplies.
A soulmate.
A home.
Ability of Understanding myself.
Ability of knowing when to Insist, when to give up
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I did, what am i doing and what am I going to do? How to escape from the sight of God's eyes, to be the free, real free soul?! If compare love to fruits. When is the best time to pick it up? Before it's mature, when it's mature, or after it has matured? What is love? Meet a right person in right place at right time?what if it falls into a different order, or missing a step, what would happen?
On a typical Friday night I am
Thinking of what's fun to do?! Open for ideas:)
You should message me if
You understand and do like what you see.