I love trying new things to eat and new places to eat them at. I love getting lost in a good book. I love having conversations with people where we both feel listened and where there's a lot of care for each other.
I am primarily looking for friends. While I'm also desiring of a relationship, I don't believe that dating is the right format to find that for me.
I'm a software developer by trade. While I enjoy the creativity the work sometimes allows for, it's just a means to an end for me. I'm on the lookout for ways to increase personal fulfillment.
I love travelling. I've been really lucky in that I've been able to work in both Argentina and South Africa and I've been able to travel around New Zealand, Australia, England, France, Italy, Cuba, the US and Canada.
I'm very satisfied with my life and of the journey that I've been on. Throughout I've also learned a lot in terms of my own mental health and interpersonal skills. This development is a work in progress, it'll be so for a lifetime, but I'm proud of how far I've come.
Every Man in this Village is a Liar, The Good Soldiers, The Glass Castle, Dancing in the Glory of Monsters, Nevada, The Bell Jar, Propos pour une libération (homo)sexuelle, Whipping Girl, Girl Sex 101, The Feynman Lectures on Physics. Zines on topics ranging from "Not Passing" to mental health.
Movies / TV
Spirited Away, Ben-Hur (the original), Steven Universe, Koyaanisqatsi, City of God, C.R.A.Z.Y., Hackers, Paths of Glory, Invisible War, We Were Here, How to Survive a Plague, Alien, Inside Out, Stranger Things, Blade Runner.
24hr breakfasts, feta/goat/aged cheese, creamy soups, pulled pork, street food, shawarma, poutine, sushi, sausages, tom yum, really spicy food that's also savoury. I also enjoy dishes from the world over, be it Ethiopian, Burmese, Sri Lankan, Korean, you name it.
Virgin ceasars, coffee, ginger tea.
Comfy sweaters that double as pillows
Hitachi Magic Wand
Impact play (as bottom)