I love trying new things to eat and new places to eat them at. I love getting lost in a good book. I love having conversations with people where we both feel listened and where there's a lot of care for each other.
I am primarily looking for friends.
I'm a software developer. While I enjoy the creativity the work allows for, opportunities for such creativity are rare. It's mostly a grind. So my job is not where I look for satisfaction. I build that consciously elsewhere.
I love travelling. I've been really lucky in that I've been able to work in both Argentina and South Africa and I've been able to travel around New Zealand, Australia, England, France, Italy, Cuba, the US and Canada.
I'm happy with my life and the learning I've done in terms of my own mental health and interpersonal skills. This development is a work in progress, it'll be so for a lifetime, but I'm proud of how far I've come.
Awake and Dreaming, Every Man in this Village is a Liar, The Good Soldiers, The Glass Castle, Dancing in the Glory of Monsters, Nevada, The Bell Jar, Propos pour une libération (homo)sexuelle, Whipping Girl, Girl Sex 101, The Feynman Lectures on Physics. Zines on topics ranging from "Not Passing" to mental health.
Movies / TV
Spirited Away, Ben-Hur (the original), Steven Universe, Koyaanisqatsi, City of God, C.R.A.Z.Y., Hackers, Paths of Glory, Invisible War, We Were Here, How to Survive a Plague, Alien, Inside Out, Stranger Things, Blade Runner.
24hr breakfasts, feta/goat/aged cheese, creamy soups, pulled pork, street food, shawarma, poutine, sushi, tom yum, kimchi, really spicy food that's also savoury.
Ceasars, coffee, ginger tea.
Hitachi Magic Wand
Impact play (as bottom)