31 Ottawa, Canada
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My self-summary
I love sitting down at a coffee shop and watch the rain or snow outside. I like to take hikes around downtown or among trails, looking at things as if it was the first time I ever laid eyes upon them.

I love trying new things to eat and new places to eat them at. I love getting lost in a good book. I love having conversations with people where we both feel listened and where there's a lot of care for each other.

I am primarily looking for friends. While I'm also desiring of a relationship, I don't believe that dating is the right format to find that for me.
What I’m doing with my life
I live with four roommates in a chosen family dynamic. My time is spent getting judged by the cat, working out, being involved in queer & trans things, going to church and baking with friends. I value intimate friendships, introspection and understanding more about myself. I am pro-active and conscious about formenting lasting memories.

I'm a software developer by trade. While I enjoy the creativity the work sometimes allows for, it's just a means to an end for me. I'm on the lookout for ways to increase personal fulfillment.

I love travelling. I've been really lucky in that I've been able to work in both Argentina and South Africa and I've been able to travel around New Zealand, Australia, England, France, Italy, Cuba, the US and Canada.

I'm very satisfied with my life and of the journey that I've been on. Throughout I've also learned a lot in terms of my own mental health and interpersonal skills. This development is a work in progress, it'll be so for a lifetime, but I'm proud of how far I've come.
I’m really good at
Clicking on people's profiles multiple times because I forgot I already visited them. Seriously I'll click on the same person ten times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Every Man in this Village is a Liar, The Good Soldiers, The Glass Castle, Dancing in the Glory of Monsters, Nevada, The Bell Jar, Propos pour une libération (homo)sexuelle, Whipping Girl, Girl Sex 101, The Feynman Lectures on Physics. Zines on topics ranging from "Not Passing" to mental health.

Movies / TV
Spirited Away, Ben-Hur (the original), Steven Universe, Koyaanisqatsi, City of God, C.R.A.Z.Y., Hackers, Paths of Glory, Invisible War, We Were Here, How to Survive a Plague, Alien, Inside Out, Stranger Things, Blade Runner.

24hr breakfasts, feta/goat/aged cheese, creamy soups, pulled pork, street food, shawarma, poutine, sushi, sausages, tom yum, really spicy food that's also savoury. I also enjoy dishes from the world over, be it Ethiopian, Burmese, Sri Lankan, Korean, you name it.

Virgin ceasars, coffee, ginger tea.
The six things I could never do without
Being touched
Intimate friendships
Comfy sweaters that double as pillows
Sport bras
Hitachi Magic Wand
Impact play (as bottom)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I want my thirties to look like. The legacy of my youth to an older me.
On a typical Friday night I am
In bed by 8pm surfing my phone. Probably masturbating too.
You should message me if
If you know of sober queer social events! Or are looking for partners to go on small adventures around the area with.