fruzztacular
31 Ottawa, Canada
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My self-summary
I love walking downtown and drinking coffee. I like to people watch, bake vegan desserts, watch old movies, try new food joints, and go on mini-adventures.

I am not interested in dating, so let's hang out instead! I don't like how dating makes things weird like an awkward mating ritual. I am looking for friendship.
What I’m doing with my life
I live with four roommates in a wonderful family dynamic. There's also a cat in this picture. My time is spent getting judged by the cat, working out, going to church or doing church things, writing, and participating in queer/trans/kinky workshops, zines and/or events. I like reading the memoirs of journalists. The thing most dear to me is the close bond I have with certain friends. I am pro-active and conscious about creating lasting memories.

Some of the memories I do have include giving a talk at a hacker conference in New York, giving oral in front of 100 people as a favour to a friend who needed a performer, following my ears in Paris and ending up in a picnic by the Seine with hundreds of students celebrating Easter, going into the Lusk caves in Gatineau, walking in the city in the middle of the night, going to a Tea Party rally, spending a day with Occupy Brighton, etc. Some of these include being in far away places, but a lot of my dearest memories are right here at home.

I love travelling. I've been really lucky in that I've been able to work in Argentina, South Africa, and travel to England, Cuba, France, Italy and throughout both the US and Canada. I've had some special moments and am grateful for them.
I’m really good at
Clicking on people's profiles multiple times because I forgot I already visited them. Seriously I'll click on the same person ten times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books
Every Man in this Village is a Liar, The Good Soldiers, Dancing in the Glory of Monsters, Nevada, Propos pour une libération (homo)sexuelle, Whipping Girl, Girl Sex 101, The Feynman Lectures on Physics. The books in the communal book case at the youth hostel. And zines on topics ranging from "Not Passing" to mental health.

Movies / TV
Spirited Away, Ben-Hur (the original), Steven Universe, Koyaanisqatsi, City of God, C.R.A.Z.Y., Hackers, Paths of Glory, Invisible War, We Were Here, How to Survive a Plague, Alien, Inside Out, Stranger Things, Blade Runner.

Food
24hr breakfasts, feta/goat/aged cheese, creamy soups, pulled pork, shawarma, poutine, sushi, spicy soup, sausages.

Beverages
Virgin ceasars, coffee, ginger tea.
The six things I could never do without
Being touched.
Intimate relationships.
Comfy sweaters that double as pillows.
Sports bras.
Hitachi Magic Wand.
Impact play (bottoming.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The legacy of my youth to an older me.
On a typical Friday night I am
In bed by 8pm surfing my phone. Also probably masturbating.
You should message me if
If you know of sober queer events in Ottawa/Gatineau! Or are looking for partners to go on adventures around the area with.
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