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My self-summary
Hey! I'm Maëlys!

I'm a fan of home baking adventures. I like cheesy action movies from the 80's and early 90's. A perfect day has me walking downtown in warm weather, sitting down somewhere, people watch, and make headway in a book. I love trying out new food places.

While I am single, I am not interested in dating! Dating is a strange idea to me; like a weird mating ritual for straight people. I'm looking for friends.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in tech. I live with four others plus adorable judgy cat. My time is divided between working out, church, baking, occasional queer/kink stuff, coding/writing, playing on the PS4. I like reading memoirs written by journalists. Random life event: giving a blowjob in front of 100 people as a performance piece.

These days I spend a lot of time unlearning behaviours around how I treat myself and others, and acquiring skills around that. Working on myself has been a central theme in my twenties.

I love travelling. I've been really lucky in that I've been able to work in Argentina, South Africa, and travel to England, Cuba, France, Italy and throughout both the US and Canada. I've had some special moments and am grateful for them.

I make an effort to show myself the same love & care I'd show a friend / child, help myself along by doing therapy / working out / talking, and to consciously create lasting memories.
I’m really good at
Clicking on people's profiles multiple times because I forgot I already visited them. Seriously I'll click on the same person ten times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Every Man in this Village is a Liar, The Good Soldiers, Dancing in the Glory of Monsters, Nevada, Propos pour une libération (homo)sexuelle, Whipping Girl, Two Whole Cakes, Girl Sex 101, The Feynman Lectures on Physics. The books in the communal book case at the youth hostel. And zines - all the zines.

Movies / TV
Spirited Away, Ben-Hur, Steven Universe, Koyaanisqatsi, City of God, C.R.A.Z.Y., Hackers, Paths of Glory, Invisible War, We Were Here, How to Survive a Plague, Alien, Inside Out, Stranger Things.

24hr breakfasts, feta/goat/aged cheese, creamy soups, pulled pork, shawarma, poutine, sushi, spicy soup, spicy sausages.

Ceasars, Irish coffee, ginger tea.
The six things I could never do without
Gentle friends.
Comfy sweaters that double as pillows.
Waterproof hiking boots.
Sports bras.
Hitachi Magic Wand.
Impact play (bottoming.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The legacy of my youth to an older me.
On a typical Friday night I am
In bed by 8pm surfing my phone. Also probably masturbating.
You should message me if
You want to hang out!