40 El Mirage, United States
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My self-summary
These things seem to be important:
I smoke I am working on quitting just not there yet, I drink, I am non-confrontational, and have average intelligence.
I don't take life too serious, I like the live in the moment concept.

I like to have fun and laugh. I might have a little "bat shit" crazy in me but it is in a good way I swear... I like banter and tongue and cheek conversations. I am a texting person... I talk on the phone for work so I prefer text although I know most of you will just randomly call, I will answer... lol My attention span is short and I don't do mundane well at all... I go out on weekends... I work way too much and am on this site way too much...

Let the journey of self-discovery continue! I spent the previous years of my life living for my family and now I am single, just single not bitter... If you ask, I will tell you that he found a new toy, he regretted it after it was too late and I moved on.

I have learned that I love to smile, and I am really good at it with the right company. I also love to laugh and even if it is at myself. I love not cooking, my mom does that. I also love not dusting, my gram does that. :) We have a house motto, "It takes all pieces of the unit to make it work..."

I am NOT afraid to meet... but I also don't mind some e-mails, we are grown ups... I am sure that I am not the only one you are talking to; so if you would like to chat a bit and then meet if we feel like it is worth it then I am up for that.

I want to date and actually will be dating, as in meeting different people and getting to know them and then seeing where it goes... if anywhere!!!
What I’m doing with my life
I finally understand a man doing projects around the house.

I have my mom and my gram living with me and they see me as the "man" (they call me Wenis). When they ask for something to be done, I will do it and no, I don't need them there offering to help me every step of the way! I chuckle now, because I get it... I get why it drives a man crazy when he is putting together a computer desk and the wife says, you should do this or that... I have done what most men have wanted to do but haven't dared... put all the pieces and tools down... and said, "there ya go, have at it... since you know how to do it... you can do it and I will go back to work now."

I hope you can see that I am not wanting to be the man, but I have learned how to be a better woman. ;)
I’m really good at
Helping people smile... even when life gets in the way :)
Finding the positive... eventually.
The first things people usually notice about me
The hair... they always comment on the hair... it is all good I love my hair, even in the morning ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a book once... Victor Frankel, "Man's search for meaning." I think it was for critical thinking, you know... one of the first college classes you ever take. I also did the 50 shades thing, just to say I had read a book... I thought they were terribly written. I liked the concept well enough but really? can we pick a different phrase other than, "her inner goddess..." I just never got into reading, I am a talker and more of a hands on type of person. I like to meet new people and hear their stories.

I am currently watching more tv and movies, simply to be able to talk to people that ask me if I have ever seen something. My Netflix and bed have taken over my weekends, help!!!

When Harry Met Sally, The Shawshank Redemption,The Other Woman, Five Year Engagement, The Great Gatsby, Ferris Bueller's Day Off

Game of Thrones fan and have re-watched the series twice.
I also like:
How I met your mother
Two Broke Girls
Big Bang Theory

I love music, pretty much all of it... I struggle with rap and honky tonk country. I am not a good music trivia person, I never know who sings it or what the title is!
Top 40, classic rock, 70's, New Country, really depends on the mood Norah Jones, Pink, James Blunt, Kattie Perry, Lake Street Dive.

I love most food and am always willing to try new palate inspirations. I do not care for green peppers or olives. But some of my favorites are steak, medium rare, baked potato with butter and sour cream... sushi, Chinese, Italian
The six things I could never do without
My Best Friend - He encourages me daily!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If I am supposed to take life more serious... so far the answer is no... Just smile and wave... it will all be alright. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting at home having a drink with the radio playing, chatting with my mom or my gram.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The curls are real but the color is out of a box. lol
You should message me if
You like to hit a patio for a a drink on a nice sunny Saturday or Sunday for a meet and greet :)

You want to! You have looked at my pics, so obviously there is at least some attraction. You are a smoker or actually dated a smoker and that worked for you, that seems to be a big issue for a lot of non smokers! I generally date men taller than me, I am 5'7" and older than me I am 39, that do not want more children. If you think we might click write me, I usually won't write first even if I am interested.