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My self-summary
Extroverted introvert. Warm. Radical lawyer. Love bouldering, metta meditation, sci fi/horror/30 Rock and being adversarial.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a lawyer working to overthrow the prison system, legalize drugs, and heal the people who have been hurt in the process. I also climb and am learning about embodied leadership and I like being in nature all the time.
I’m really good at
Inhabiting masculine and feminine energies. Dissecting ideas. Being friendly and asking a lot of questions. Listening to your answers. Dancing. Laughing too loudly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
NK Jemisin, Octavia Butler, James Baldwin, Stephen King, Kiese Laymon, Sherman Alexie, Dostoevsky, Borges, Faulkner, Flannery O'Connor.

Andrei Rublev, Jaws, The Babadook, A Blaffair to Rememblack. Horror horror horror. Any Bergman, Tarkovsky, Von Trier.

THE X-FILES, 30 rock, insecure, family guy, stranger things, the oa, being mary jane, how to get away with murder, etc etc

Sampha, Frank Ocean, Kanye, Solange, jazz, the Specials, the Clash, Desmond Dekker, 70s ska, Billy Bragg, FKA Twigs, Bomba Estereo, the julie ruin, kathleen hanna, lianne la havas, etcccccc

My mom's food.
Six things I could never do without
Family + deep friendships.
Embodiment + nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This Audre Lorde quote:

"Tell them about how you're never really a whole person if you remain silent, because there's always that one little piece inside you that wants to be spoken out, and if you keep ignoring it, it gets madder and madder and hotter and hotter, and if you don't speak it out one day it will just up and punch you in the mouth from the inside."
On a typical Friday night I am
Recovering from capitalism
You should message me if
You are open.
You are funny.
You are interested in spirituality, ancestors, buddhism, psychedelics, intellectualism, or are not but are very funny.
The two of us