54Oak Harbor, United States
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My self-summary
I have been looking around and think I now understand what this "summary" is supposed to be.
It's a little absurd to me to think that you can summarize a life on less than 300 pages.
My life is and has been an adventure. I have lived in a few different countries and have learned tolerance and respect through those experiences.
I have been in this country steadily for the past 20 years and obviously love it or I would be gone by now!
I have many, many varied and somewhat contradictory interests. I love the outdoors, especially the ocean. I am happy in my shorts and T-shirt sitting in the boat. I am happy in my jeans and sweatshirt digging around for mushrooms. I also like dressing up in my best dress, removing the nearly constant ponytail I sport and putting on my make up.
I absolutely love children. I have one daughter who is in college right now. Thankfully I get my kid fix through my job. I am one of the lucky people that has a job they love.
I am recently out of a long term relationship and therefore out of practice meeting others. I am primarily looking for someone to first be a friend. Someone to have fun with. Someone who isn't looking for sex and sex alone. I need to know that there are still men available for a relationship based on respect, intelligence, adventure (then sex!)
Anyway, I'm sure within the next 16 hours I will be back to edit, add or delete...
What I’m doing with my life
Having as much fun as I can and working at a job that is my dream.


IT IS JUNE NOW...nearly 5 months since I first tried this online dating mess. It's fun to look at the pictures and read the profiles but I think I am coming to the realization that this will never lead to much more than friendships. Not a problem but not really what I was looking for either.
Go ahead. Message me. I would love to meet someone to play pool with, go hiking with, have some fun with. I even tried oysters a couple of months ago!
Crabbing season is nearly here. I am an expert pot puller...
I’m really good at
being a peacemaker and laughing.
playing in the garden. Turning a barren space into an outdoor Eden.
Seeing humour in uncomfortable situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
My lame accent and insane hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all books! I love the way they look and the way they smell.
Old movies are my favourite...30's and 40's. Also enjoy an action/adventure flick. Listen to all music from baroque to pop.
Six things I could never do without
Laughter, family, books, boating (love the ocean), friends and good conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How wonderful life and living can be and the capriciousness of some humans.
On a typical Friday night I am
Well, this is Friday and here I sit filling out a form. Every Friday brings new possibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love kissing dogs right on the end of their noses! Just above their lips and below their nostrils.
You should message me if
You want to meet someone genuine and fun.
Also - please - if you are looking for someone to talk with and have fun with, not someone for just casual sex. That's not my cup of tea! I do enjoy sex but I am one of those types that like sex (a lot) but want it to mean something emotionally as well as physically.
The two of us