55Melbourne, Australia
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My self-summary
I want to live in the present moment as best I can and try to look for the joyful as much as is humanly possible. However, I don't believe in bullshit saccharine fake smiles and happiness, just genuine positivity when it happens. I am polyamorous and I have been in an openly honest polyamorous relationship with someone since 1979. I would expect any partner met here to also be polyamorous. Sorry, BDSM practitioners, you and I will not be at all compatible as I seek non-dominative relationships of equality.
What I’m doing with my life
writing and performing poetry, meditatively listening to music while drinking wine or Chinese tea, reading cultural theory and social theory type books, supporting progressive left activism such as union rights for workers and rights for refugees
I’m really good at about? The Three T's : talking, thinking, tantra.
The first things people usually notice about me
my excessively colourful clothes and my equally colourful vocabulary
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book : James Joyce - Ulysses; Movie : Jacques Tati - Playtime; Music : Mozart, Mahler, Ravel, deep house, nu jazz breakbeat, salsa; Food : hot and spicy
Six things I could never do without
1) poetry 2) music 3) theoretical analysis 4) sensual touching of other human beings 5) struggling for a better world 6) calm meditation when not struggling for a better world
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...the six things above.
On a typical Friday night I am
...doing one or more of the six things above.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cry a lot when listening to certain music.
You should message me if
...if you would like to have a go...
The two of us