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My self-summary
Happy... Wanted to write Happy New Year, but stopped half way.. Am I happy? I am at the moment. I have arrived at the plateau from where I can see most of my past mistakes, some of them cringeworthy even now, but also look at the path which takes me from here and now to the future. I'm constantly trying to learn from my and other people's behavior. I do feel that there is still some mileage left in this wagon.

This past year I've traveled twice, first time to London for a job interview, in June, and second time to Tbilisi, the place I was born and grew up in. I didn't get the job, I didn't even get the response from them even though they emphatically promised to 'let me know within a week'. Now I know that it was for the better. As I do have other plans. In Tbilisi on the other hand I did everything that I wanted, and more. Funny, you think that you are grown-up, but you still do things and behave in the way to impress other people, and to prove something to them, or to yourself. Well, the latter is pardonable, as long as it worth it in a long run. Why I talk about travel? Lately I've been thinking about my unhealthy attitude toward traveling, as I don't enjoy it, and this is what was wrong with me in the last decade. I want to start traveling again and start enjoying it. Somewhere on the way I've lost that feeling..

I collect things.. I better start by saying that I love history. History fascinates me. And so the material things that reflect this or that historical moment. I see money as means to apply yourself to such activities, hobbies, adventures, passions..

I wanted to write something about my view on relationship, but realized it would sound... well, I felt overwhelmed while I was thinking about it for a few seconds, so I better leave it for another time. Until I'm more clear in my mind about the subject.

....Carrying on two days later. So, briefly - you work on it every day, no, every moment of it actually. I remember I once was in a group setting, the conversation went to the topic of relationship, someone mentioned the importance of establishing mutual trust from the beginning, and then one man asked: 'So, after you've established the trust, she is yours, isn't she?' (Shows quite a common attitude, isn't it?) His question is so loaded with misperceptions that I wouldn't even bother to unravel them. But you've got the point, right?
What I’m doing with my life
I am feeling it, thinking about it, and then I act according to what comes out of the above. I'm currently at a wrapping-up stage of my second career as a writer, and simultaneously at a baby-steps stage of revamping my first career as a music performer and a teacher. Really chuffed about it.
I’m really good at
everything that I decide to do. If I feel that I would not be the best at something I would not waste my time on it, and would let someone else to have a shot. I can tell you of what I'm not good at, there are a number of things on that list, but this is not what they ask us to write about here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: L'Irrévolution, The Reader, literally any Dickens.

Movies: I've Loved You So Long, Welcome to the Rileys, Sarah's Key, The Invisible Woman; Men, Women and Children.

Shows: first four seasons of Columbo, Friends, ER.

Music: Chopin, Mahler, Prokofiev, Zaz

Food: Red Curry, Boeuf Bourguignon, Trenette Carbonara, Yorkshire Pudding, Wiener Schnitzel, although given my background I still feel that nothing beats a meal consisted of Satsivi, Pkhali, Imeruli Khachapuri, Chanakhi and Kaklis Muraba for dessert.
Six things I could never do without
My dreams
Some of the material things I own
Good night's sleep
My sentimental attachments
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be a better person, kinder to myself and others.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing various things.
You should message me if
you feel you want to

P.S. I have to say, though there is no formal requirement for this kind of talk on this site - I am really moved by the amount of women in here, of all backgrounds and ages, who are looking and sound happy. I know how many of us are just making through life fighting all kinds of sorrows and insults. So to keep up hope and look as beautiful as you are is a real feat.
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