That said, why would you want to deal with that? I'm actually very nice, I listen well, I can fix things. I've had formal, but not academic, massage training. I take great pleasure in my partner's joy. I'm easy going and am willing to take what you are willing to offer (but I am not a doormat). I'll respect your boundaries and privacy and expect the same. I like partner dancing (and am reasonably good at it). I enjoy being exposed to new hobbies and interests.
I like my community volunteerism for similar reasons.
But I haven't done a lot for myself recently, and that's part of what I'm looking to change being on this site.
I am a good listener, and a good problem solver.
Books and Film, I like science fiction, adventure and comedy.
Oh, you want the non-literal answers ...
In truth, although there are many things I really like ... engaging fiction stories, good sushi, a strong circle of friends, family, soda, the internet and all the world it brings to me; I am pretty self-actualized and could get by without most things if I had to.
I would like to get out more.
You can accept not being the primary focus of my attention when we are not together.
You do not have an objection to spending some very enjoyable times together with someone who is already involved in a long term relationship.