I'm a total Anime, Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Gamer geek, who also happens to be very kinky. I'm active in the Phoenix BDSM and Kink scene. I identify as a Service Switch, and am skilled in activities from light spanking to various forms of edgeplay. I'm a member of both TNG Arizona, and APEX, and make my own silicone dildos, and other adult toys. You can check them out here https://www.etsy.com/shop/GespenstsFantasyGear I make some pretty amazing innovative and creative designs. My Fetlife name is GESPENST, in case you're a fellow kinkster as well!
I'm poly and currently have 1 partner, so if that bothers you, don't waste my time.
I'm on here to find new friends, talk about kink and BDSM, and maybe find some passion and intimacy if I'm lucky.
Doing research on several forms of kink and fetishism. Working on classes to teach on various kink subjects, and hoping to present them on a National level at some point.
Volunteering at Leather events with my Leather family.
When not in outer space I'm super good at listening, and have been a well cried on shoulder. My strong apathy has been both blessing and burden throughout my life. Needless to say, my love for friends and family is fierce.
Being a complete goofball. I've been know to dole out bad puns, break into song and dance at random, quote mimic or parody pop culture, and generally be loud open and unabashed about my feelings on things. I enjoy my freedoms, because I truly value them. I enjoy people that have a sense of humor because humor creates a healthier brain chemistry, and really makes life more enjoyable in general. Right?
Trying my best to serve the people I connect with, and care about.
I'll be honest, I don't read much lately, But for fiction, I've been slowly working my way through Hideyuki Kikuchi's Vampire Hunter D series. I've been wanting to read the Song of Fire and Ice series. Non fiction Lee Harrington, Deborah Addington, Douglas Kent's Complete Shibari, and the 2 Knotty Boys books are some of my faves.
Secretary, Labryinth, The Neverending Story, The Monty Python Films, V for Vendetta, Clerks, The Goonies, Indiana Jones, Star Wars, The Broken Lizard Films, Animal House, Austin Powers movies, Boondock Saints Movies, most anything with Bruce Campbell in it, Stanley Kubrick films, The Crow, The Dark Crystal, Tim Burton films, Death Race 2000, Interview With The Vampire, David Lynch films, Tarantino films, The Lord of the Rings, etc...etc...etc...
Game of Thrones, The Big Bang Theory, Farscape, Invader Zim, Futurama, Family Guy, Robot Chicken, Red Dwarf, Vikings, True Blood, The Venture Bros, and a ton of Anime. If its Nerdy Fantasy, or animated, I'm probably into it, and I can't stand so called reality tv.
Metal, industral, punk rock, Celtic, and J rock. I'm not a huge audiophile like most people I know.
I will eat almost anything, although I'm allergic to onions, so none of them.
You are my muses. Confuse and amaze me. Excite all my senses. Teach me. Inspire me. Own my soul. Your love is my only faith in this life.
It is my drug of choice, and I can get it from a good hug alone.
In other words hugs, kisses, holding hands, and various other forms of personal contact are awesome and appreciated. With consent of course :-)
It's a big part of my heritage, and these days drank for flavor, and a good meal pairing than for recreation.
For reasons similar to beer.
I don't need to explain this one do I?
Yes I adore them enough to list them twice!