35 Mesa, United States
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My self-summary

I'm a total Anime, Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Gamer geek, who also happens to be very kinky. I'm active in the Phoenix BDSM and Kink scene. I identify as a Switch, and range from light spanking to edgeplay. I'm a member of both TNG Arizona, and APEX, and make my own silicone dildos, and other adult toys. You can check them out here I make some pretty crazy shit! My Fetlife name is GESPENST, in case you're a fellow kinkster as well!
What I’m doing with my life
Silicone molding and casting is the name of the game. Doing research on several forms of kink and fetishism. Working on classes to teach on various kink subjects, and hoping to present them on a National level at some point.
I’m really good at
Making almost anything with my hands, caning, spanking, tying pretty girls up, Dildo play, and making dirty puns.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a ton of tattoos, and a massive septum piercing. I'm also known to sport kilts. I look intimidating, but I'm actually quite shy and kind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'll be honest, I don't read much lately, But for fiction, I've been slowly working my way through Hideyuki Kikuchi's Vampire Hunter D series. I've been wanting to read the Song of Fire and Ice series. Non fiction Lee Harrington, Deborah Addington, Douglas Kent's Complete Shibari, and the 2 Knotty Boys books are some of my faves.

The Secretary, Labryinth, The Neverending Story, The Monty Python Films, V for Vendetta, Clerks, The Goonies, Indiana Jones, Star Wars, The Broken Lizard Films, Animal House, Austin Powers movies, Boondock Saints Movies, most anything with Bruce Campbell in it, Stanley Kubrick films, The Crow, The Dark Crystal, Tim Burton films, Death Race 2000, Interview With The Vampire, David Lynch films, Tarantino films, The Lord of the Rings, etc...etc...etc...

Game of Thrones, The Big Bang Theory, Farscape, Invader Zim, Futurama, Family Guy, Robot Chicken, Red Dwarf, Vikings, True Blood, The Venture Bros, and a ton of Anime. If its Nerdy Fantasy, or animated, I'm probably into it, and I can't stand so called reality tv.

Metal, industral, punk rock, Celtic, and J rock. I'm not a huge audiophile like most people I know.

I will eat almost anything, although I'm allergic to onions, so none of them.
The six things I could never do without
Women, women's orgasms, orgasms, dildos, Single Malt Scotch, and Dark Beer roughly in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Dildo designs. Getting my business off the ground. How to come off as not a complete and total perv, when I totally am.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hoping someone would come over and play.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really don't keep much private, so you can ask anything and I'll give you an honest answer.
You should message me if
You're a Domme, Ma'am, Submissive, Pet, or girl who is interested in some consensual play, or would like to talk Kink. I'm pretty shy, so odds of me messaging you to initiate conversation is slim to nil.