62San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
Adoring; Affectionate; Appreciated; Attentive; Bay Area native; Charming; ; Dedicated to personal and community development; Degreed in Political Science from SJSU with a Spanish Minor; Do-gooder;

Chivalrous Feminist (The best of both worlds!); Flaming red liberal; Fun; Genuine; Giving; Handsome; Honest; Humorous; Involved in the valley business, social service, service club, arts and other communities;

Landmark Forum grad; Long time San Jose man (Read DECADES - This is MY town!); Loving; Not married as of today; New Age Catholic; No kids; Open; Playful; Politically active; Respected; Romantic;

Sensuous; Sentimental; Spiritual; Straight; Supportive; Multilingual in Spanish and French; Wonderful arm candy; Very soon to have a doggie; Yellow dog Democrat
What I’m doing with my life
• Bringing the phrase taking care of me to a new higher level;
• Campaigning to elect the first woman and 1st former First Lady to the Oval Office: #45th President of the United States!;
• Helping people of all kinds to have more fun, freedom, and fulfillment in their lives (Wouldn’t you like to know how!);
• Sharing referrals and introductions to my large database of fiends and associates;
•• Partnering with businesses and organizations to support a successful statewide youth development organization on its 50th anniversary;
• Working with other men to help each other be better men, to assist each other to be the man we always wanted to be;
• Preparing for a new doggie;
• Starting an exercise and diet regimen;
• With my men’s group, Mentor Discover Inspire (MDI), filling and presenting 3,300 new backpacks to youth that need them annually through Sacred Heart Community Service;
• Maintaining, decorating, and improving my sweet little apartment
• Continuing the importance of my spiritual life
• Learning patience in the wait, or the search, for you!
I’m really good at
 Back, foot, neck rubs and more
 Brightening someone’s day and increasing someone’s happiness
 Playing, exploring, eating, drinking, having fun
 Intimacy and love, crying tears of joy on occasion,
 Showing affection and romance
 Doing what I said I will do
 Making people laugh,
 Praying, being grateful, and celebrating higher power
 Being responsive, with your messages to me and a whole lot more
 Remembering special occasions
 Smiling, Laughing, Schmoozing, mixing, and partying
 …Adult play…
 More will be revealed… Contact me to find out more…
The first things people usually notice about me
 Big smile
 Bright happy radio voice to welcome you
 Eyes open wide.
 Open, happy, loving attitude
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
MUSIC: Barbra Streisand and Bette Midler first; Andy Williams, Grass Roots, Raspberries, Johnny Horton, Willie Nelson, Mac Davis and MORE

BOOKS The Burnished Blade, The Secret...MORE

FOOD Pork chops with mashed potatoes, Asparagus with side of mayo, peas or green beans, Kahlua Cream Cheese Pie, Fortino Almond Champagne

Crab, Lobster, Cat fish, Trout, Salmon

Beef. It’s what’s for dinner!

Spinach, watermelon, avocados, tomatoes


TV West Wing, (ADDICT!), Commander in Chief, That 70’s show, Wonder Years, King of the Hill, Frasier, King of the Hill, China Beach, Thirty Something, The Wonder Years I have not had a TV in my place for almost a decade. My next place, for which I now search, will have one

MOVIES Patton, Time after Time, The Dark Knight, The Game, Great Escape, Escape to Eden, Love Story (I cried!), Fried Great Escape, Shape of Things, Tomatoes…MORE

PLAYS To be listed
Six things I could never do without
My spirituality, Jesus the Living Christ in my heart, self development and interest in the goddess

The lady who will come into my life (You, Miss?)

My close circle of friends and associates

Being a Liberal Democrat

Speaking Spanish and French

The opportunity to give back to my community
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is next in my life?

Spirituality (Jesus and personal development

You --- what you are doing, where you are, and what you are wearing right now?!
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical, what is that?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Oh, yeah, like I’m going to spoil the surprise for you here!
You should message me if
You are titillated by my profile, pictures and/or questions

You want to blow this stark two-dimensional pop stand for a real conversation, meeting, or date

You want to message me, even just a little bit!
The two of us