40Union City, United States
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My self-summary
Hmm, well perhaps I can say I am a thoughtful, intelligent, sensitive person. A combination which can be a double edged sword, but for those that I care for, can be a great blessing.

Grew up in southern California, and mostly lived in the bay area since college. Though I did spend some time in China a few years back. I came to appreciate more living in California, with our great weather, healthy food, and culture of innovation.

I've always valued connecting with people, but haven't always chosen wisely. Recent insights and personal growth give me confidence in doing better. Would like to find a life companion, to form a relationship of love, mutual inspiration and support, and making each other's lives better.
What I’m doing with my life
Working at a tech startup. Which is sometimes busy and stressful, sometimes laid back. I work with a great team, which I find is so important. Also, working on improving myself, staying healthy, etc.
I’m really good at
Using my intuition to solve problems and understand people. Solving technology problems in general. Listening, empathizing, providing encouragement and support.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: most Jane Austen books, Anne of Green Gables, Survival of the Sickest, Freakonomics, The End of Poverty

Movies: Star Trek First Contact, The Avengers, Thor, actually pretty much all the marvel movies. Love Actually, Pride and Prejudice (esp the version with Keira Knightley), Definitely, Maybe

Music: Taylor Swift, The Cure, Coldplay, lots of others

Food: I eat gluten free now, which limits my choices. In general I try to eat healthy, though am also know to do things like fry up my own gluten free donuts.
Six things I could never do without
Friends, good weather (my health is very sensitive to the weather), Hope, times of quietness (I love the quiet of the night), meaningful contribution/work, and love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People, how they think, what motivates them (including myself), relational dynamics..

Ideas such as fairness, justice, love, and how to incorporate them into real life.

How to have a more positive outlook and attitude towards life and others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Resting and recharging, or possibly hanging out with friends.. Sometimes working or helping a friend with something.
You should message me if
You are willing to see past the tarnish to find the treasure underneath. Given a bit of love, appreciation, and affirmation, invariably I will return such favors with great loyalty, devotion, kindness, and love.
The two of us