41South Bend, United States
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My self-summary
For starters i live alone with my two dogs, became a homeowner about a year ago(finally) so still excited about that. I am a guitar/bass player and have been for about 25 years. i have been burned a few times in my life and now i believe that casual dating or new friends is all i am looking for.

I am a novice ghost hunter and paranormal enthusiast. I take my beliefs in the afterlife seriously and have had several experiences leading me to my beliefs.

Some consider me gothic but i hate labels but just go with it. I love the darker side of life and may wear nothing but black and decorate my house like everyday is halloween but hey we all have our tastes.I drive and own a hearse so if that is too "creepy" for you I am probably not who you are looking for.

side note, in the "my details" section under height, yes its true.
What I’m doing with my life
working full time as a forklift operator in a foodservice warehouse. been doing that for about 20 years or so. i am a member of a local car club and like to do shows and well ya know show off my cars. I am also a union steward at my place of work and get to negotiate contracts and deal with any grievances.
I’m really good at
guitar playing... Peter Steele from Type O Negative is my biggest influence and I am very lucky to have met him down in Indy. street fighter(some other video games), and i am highly respected at my job due to my stewardship with my local union and my overall experience. washing and waxing cars, bowling(although i don't bowl much at all anymore)

what i am really bad at is figuring out those who keep in contact with me on here for a few weeks decide to delete their profile....i wonder why they don't just say "hey sorry not interested" or at least say "goodbye". Message me at your own risk i guess
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: Comic books count? Anything on the paranormal and Micheal Romkey.
movies: Horror, comedies, sci-fi, action, fantasy
shows: Currently Gotham, Munsters (best show ever) don't watch a lot of t.v. to be honest
food: mexican and Italian and could always enjoy a good polish buffet. anything with pumpkin in it. Pumpking beer from southern tier brewery
music: symphonic metal, doom and gloom, gothic rock, industrial, 80's pop: Type O negative, Therion, Epica, Tristania, Haggard, After Forever, Kamelot, Virgin Black, My Dying Bride, Moonspell, Ghost, Opeth, Krypteria, Visions of Atlantis, Lunatica, Dead can dance, Okay way too many to list at this point
Six things I could never do without
my fender strat
a car
a job
Type O Negative
a couple probably seem cheesy but it is what it is
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future, mine of course, am i doomed to be alone forever? How come all these beautiful women on here are single? Why do I have to buy 6 boxes of hot pockets just to save a buck with a coupon? Why won't the government release information on aliens that have been working along side them for so long? Can we not handle the truth? Why isn't my house haunted? How did that guitar riff go again? Do I think to much? Am I paranoid? Am I still filling in this box? Can I stop now? Please?
On a typical Friday night I am
chilling at home with video games, youtube channels, netflix, out with the boys, taking my dogs to the park
You should message me if
you want to know anything else or by some stretch you think i am worthy of your precious time and words......I can't see "likes" and I also don't know why i put likes in quotes but well anyway I can't see it's okay to send a message..really it is. Oh and just because I may be "creepy" does not make me a creeper....I have nothing but respect for women and would never ask for nude photos or "hookups" or anything like that...i prefer to keep it classy
The two of us