43Santa Barbara, United States
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My self-summary
I am in a new phase in my life and I am curious to meet new people and explore possibilities. I have been wrapped up with establishing myself in my profession and figuring out motherhood that I took a hiatus.
I still haven't figured out motherhood since the kid keeps getting older and the dynamics change but it's been an incredible ride and it keeps me on my toes.
I want to meet someone who will encourage me to take risks, hold my hand in the process and believe that it is possible- I'm not asking for a savior or someone to fix things (unless it's the sink dripping, but then I have power tools -coin flip?) but in the words of Kahlil Gibran "Fill each other's cup but not drink from one cup", "stand together yet not too near together..."
What I’m doing with my life
I develop and facilitate programs for teens and enjoy it. Currently learning how to navigate my IPad. I realize that many people would say that they are dummy proof but I'm here to prove that theory wrong.
I’m really good at
I'm good at making people laugh (mostly unintentional).
The first things people usually notice about me
My friend tells me my voice (radio seductive- not my words, but I liked the description), and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love a cheesy romance novel but I am capable of higher level reading and conversation :)
I enjoy movies and shows but not sure if I have a favorite. Indie, alternative, blues, classical, and rock are my favorite genres for music -but I am open to almost any type except for death metal.
Thai, Sushi, and Mexican top favorites.
Six things I could never do without
My friends/family
Great food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life, spirituality, friends, making a difference in the world, the teens I work with, how to make more money versus earning money, my child, love... it's pretty busy in my mind :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing and reading... that's why I'm on okcupid :)
I do go out with friends for a drink yet I can be a homebody.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will share that when the time is right.
You should message me if
you are kind, have a sense of humor, smart, confident, honest and obviously if you are interested... You never know
The two of us