39Escondido, United States
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My self-summary
I am agnostic, polyamorous, zaftig, bisexual, and kinky. If you take issue with any of that, we are not a match.

I'm looking for pieces that fit my puzzle. I don't know exactly what those pieces look like yet, I am just familiar with the edges that they fit with. And, just like any other puzzle, it's usually pretty obvious if a piece is going to fit or not.

That said, I'm not really seeking anything specific on here. I am happy to make a new friend and am open to something deeper if the chemistry fits. I have a whole lot of hobbies and interests, many of which are better with company.

I want to build unique individual connections. If you are a couple looking for your unicorn, I'm not her.

I have zero interest in casual sex with strangers. I'm looking to build strong and deep friendships/relationships. Some of those dynamics might include things of a sexual nature. Some won't.

I am honest, upfront, and blunt to a fault. I want to be sure that anyone I bring into my life would compliment and positively mesh with it.
What I’m doing with my life
I work a lot and love my career. When I'm not working, I busy myself with projects or creative outlets.

Some hobbies and current interests, though not to claim I'm any good at any of them...

Stunt kites
Board games
SCA Wars
Good beer
Good coffee

I like exploring new places. Finding hole in the wall taco shops, thrift stores, coffee shops, breweries... Yelp is my friend.
I’m really good at
Avoiding conversations about politics or religion.

Coloring in the lines of coloring books, but using all the wrong colors.

Making something edible magically appear out of seemingly nothing to choose from.

Building pillow forts.

Cuddle piles.

Making something mundane seem interesting.

Bribing my cats to do weird tricks.

Finding oddities.

Introducing people to things new to them.

Paying attention. Until I cant. Sometimes, I just can't. haha.
Six things I could never do without
Self Love

Chosen family


Kink - I'm a quirky, imaginative, creative, and twisted individual. If you aren't open minded, I will be too much to take in.

Good hygiene

Creative outlets

Some things worth noting that make me happy:

clowns (seriously always never fail to make me happy)
getting pet - my hair, body, feet, hands.. whatever. Love touches.
Skeletons and skulls
turtles (especially mine)
cats (especially mine)
happy friendly dogs that respect my personal space
board games
driving in the fog
Thunder storms
pretty sundresses with matching panties underneath
soft fuzzy pajama bottoms
swimming naked
road trips along the coast
seeing a rainbow and searching for the leprechaun at the end
I spend a lot of time thinking about

Leaving people better off having known me or at least unchanged... Being a positive aspect in people's lives.

That fire poi set I really want to get.

What to make my husband for dinner.

Why my cats are so oddly attracted to water and obsessed with stealing my drinks.

Work. I am constantly learning new stuff and meet the most fascinating people.

Fire Eating. I think about it but still havent tried yet.

Riding my bicycle. I think about it a lot. yet rarely actually ride it.

Our next roadtrip. We go to SCA wars a few times a year, and enjoy other random trips when we can do them. My husband really likes to roadtrip to breweries.

My cats being cute. As obnoxious as they are, they are just as awesome in adorableness.

My next/newest project. I like to sew, build stuff, and create things. Whether it is a gift for someone else or something for myself, I usually have at least one project I am working on. Currently I just finished a giant jenga and a shadow puppet stage, and I am working on a onsie with a drop seat with skelly print on it, as well as a pinup style dress with monster print.

Sunshine and basking in it. When its murky out, I get so jealous of my turtle's perfect sunshiny environment. I love San Diego weather!
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have a typical.
You should message me if
You are awesome, recognize how awesome I am, and think our awesomeness mingled would be even better.

You have some common interests or think I might dig what you are into.
The two of us