40 Melbourne, Australia
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My self-summary
1st If you like me i wont see it just message me :-)

I have a life full of people I love, personal goals, and interests. I have a spiritual element to my life more tied up in production of art, music and lifestyle than anything. I'm also very practical and rational when I need to be-

I am an evolving being, who is open to new ideas. I am interested in people, what they have to say, what they can offer and what I can offer them. I am open to all sorts of relationships, from the meaningless to the most meaningful. I can be a deep thinker at times, but remain playful, charismatic and interested in my demeanor.

I am active, intuitive, sexual and in tune with serendipity, which is to say I am always on the lookout for the markers/ moments I can give meaning to. I tend to run with these.

I am not entitled to anything in particular .... I am born with a body that works when I breathe, add fuel , thinks and experiences. If I continue to pay attention to what my body/ mind experiences I truly live - That is the most that we can hope to accomplish in a life - to truly live.... if i live and i'm attentive to my self .... and I am still unhappy .... I can focus on whats making me unhappy because I am 'aware' of whats making me so - then it is up to me to make myself happy

in case you're thinking of asking - This has nothing to do with God or anything like that. I am happy because I have become aware that I am the only person that can make me so.

I dont run away from anything unless its chasing me or it'll do me harm
Your self is always important - if its lost importance its because one has travelelled too far from it and its lost in the fog of a modern existence we don't need
I wake up every morning and Im a day older.... a day surer of myself .... a day further from the fear that I don't have 'enough'.
Nothing forces you to stay in a shitty job, a shitty relationship, or give up and be come entrapped - children can be a burden or a blessing. People can enrich us or drain us.

Still mostly I believe what you give out from your self comes back to you.... if its acceptance, empathy , compassion, love that is what will come back..... if you are negative , youve given up and you dont want to find yourself under all the @#$% then thats what people will see and they wont be interested and noone will invest anything good in you and you surround yourself with #$%^ - That's speaking from experience "
What I’m doing with my life
I booked bands for a prominent Melbourne venue on Tuesday and Wednesdays every week of the year 2003 till 2015. I hosted the show, marketed, co-ordinated and hand pick acts for the stage, ensuring everyone knows their place. Feedback is part of my job, and I love to be involved with people on a personal level, reveling in the culture of music and the arts.

I played in a band, music is a passion for me since ever. I'm lead singer in my band, i also play guitar, piano, clarinet and f*** around on the computer. Playing on stage is a thrill.

Im involved with a st kilda based sporting club and I love it. I love yoga but to be honest have not done it so much of late.... Looking forward to getting back into it.
Visual artist course photography, printmaking, paintng, drawing, ceramics and video art. It was awesome and I continue to practice.

so obviously what i thought defined me has changed but ill gravitate to another chance to live life differently to the norm
I’m really good at
engaging other's attention, conversation, making people feel at ease, enjoying your ideas, taking control & relinquishing control, bedtime activities, enjoying my own company, eating food (i love food!)
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile. my energy. my eyes. my arms. my shoes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
intelligent comedy, suspense, thriller, horror, porn, cult / alternative

Fight Club - Harold and Maude - dogs in space - bad boy bubby - he died with a falafel in his hand-
I wont list a million movies but i could
The six things I could never do without
music, chocolate milk, discussion, love, sex, sleep
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the ways of the world, people, love, sex, art, concepts
On a typical Friday night I am
sitting at home talking to my dog eating take away with a beer :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I talk to my dog... and myself
You should message me if
...your currents run a little deeper than most people. at least have an interest in music and art. are capable of loving someone other than yourself are over being defined by a scene are your own person