39 Indianapolis, United States
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My self-summary
Divorced about 5 years ago from a 13 year relationship.... And... It's taken a bit... but... Everything in my life is finally fine. My daughter is the best human who ever lived. My jobs are great. I've always had the most amazing friends. I'm writing/recording/performing music that I love. I like myself. I like most everyone around me. I can't really complain.... About anything.

I'd rather talk to you about music or life than sex or sports. So... There ya go.

I write music in my free time. I still like rolling around on a skateboard and making music with old friends. I ride my bike a lot in the summer. I love kickin back and enjoying a conversation with good people over a few drinks. I'm pretty atheist. Liberal-ish. Equal rights. The environment is a pretty big deal, or whatever.

Just maybe looking for someone to talk to at this point. That's about it. Hang out. See if we give a shit. Feel it out. Have fun. Right?
What I’m doing with my life
I'm taking care of my daughter. I'm bar tending... And I'm writing music that will be recorded this year if I can pull it all together.
I’m really good at
I'm SUPER good at surrounding myself with quality people. I love that about myself.

I'm also good at eating shit and not getting hurt. Kinda like Clark Griswald.
The first things people usually notice about me
You might notice right away that I don't really care too much about sports or video games or wasting away in front of the TV. So I have nothing to add at the "water cooler". The probability of me knowing what happened in the news today or what recent movie you are trying to quote is pretty slim.

But that being said, I'm not opposed to watching a Colts game with good friends. I can have fun doing anything... If people I love are involved I could have fun shoveling shit.

People are always freaking out about my skin and how young I look for a 39 year old... Pretty much everyday someone says to me that they thought I was like 24 years old... So... Maybe you'll be one of those people, and maybe that'll be what you notice. I don't know.

Or... Maybe you'll be one of those people that tell me I look like Keanu Reeves or the kid from Dazed and Confused. I get those a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Kurt Vonnegut, American Psycho, it's such a beautiful day, Social Satires, The Ricky Gervais show, Louie, Cosmos, Vice, Bill Maher.... 1% of metal and 1% of indie rock that comes out (I find most of it very typical and boring).

Built to Spill, anything Doug Martsch does is gonna be perfect, Radical Face, Radiohead, Flaming Lips, Tame Impala, Dinosaur Jr, Guns n Roses, Yes, Pink Floyd, Guthrie Govan, Appleseed Cast, Faith No More, Sunny Day Real Estate, Quicksand, Blonde Redhead, The Goastt, Chelsea Wolfe.

Shining, Dodheimsgard, Gojira, Mastodon and all the old metal classics.

I'm kind of a music lover that hates most of it. It's frustrating.

Modern country though... Wow... It's just not good. On any level. Like... I find it so repulsive that it literally makes me bummed out that I'm human. It actually makes me uncomfortable. If I had secret government information that someone was trying to pry out of me... all they would have to do is put on some modern country... I would squeal like a pig that just sat on a tack.

I'm pretty sure my favorite food is sauce.

If I find myself in front of the tv it's usually a documentary... Or Seinfeld. And 9 times outta 10 the documentaries are about food and its impact on everything around us. I'm into it. Most people aren't. Which kinda bums me out a little. But whatever.
The six things I could never do without
My daughter, friends and people and being social, my guitars, food with sauce on it, really shitty music that I can't bond with anyone about, and beer maybe.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life and the universe and what the fuck I'm doing here and if it will ever matter, and if I'm wasting my life at work, and how fast it's all going, and how I'm only here once and what to do about all this. What to believe, what not to believe. Considering the source. If all this shit is real or just my brain perceiving it and if it's perceiving it correctly or not. How little everything seems to matter when you look at the earth from 30 trillion light years away. Who's giving me good advice. Who's giving me bad advice. What I want out of it all. What I don't want.

Music... writing music and how I can do it better.

Raising my daughter to be an empathetic person that values herself and knows the difference between things that matter and things that don't. But to be honest, she doesn't need much help. She's incredible. But I'm a pretty big softy when it comes to her... So... Sometimes I wonder if she'll be tough enough... I don't know what I'm doing... But, so far so good... So I'll just keep playin it by ear I guess.
On a typical Friday night I am
working until 5 am. Usually.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My room isn't very clean and I kinda like Wham!
You should message me if
Fuck... If you made it this might as well message me. This thing is long winded as hell... I almost feel like I should apologize.

But... Anyways... I'm pretty open. There's really no reason not to message me if you think any of the bullshit I've said on here is even half interesting.