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My self-summary
UPDATE: Back in Oakland. Bike tour ruled. I rode 5300+ miles

UPDATE: Currently on bike tour. If I'm checking you out, it's because I'm in your town.

Let's make this easy. Go listen to the song "Anvil will fall" by Harvey Milk. If you, like me, think it is the most strangely beautiful song ever, then let's be friends. Or we could just be friends anyway.

Possible alternatives: "these days" ( the Nico version), "Girl from the north county"(Dylan and Cash version), "kiss the bottle" by Jawbreaker, or the entire RVIVR discography.

I love theatre, live performance, basement punk shows, hiking, holding hands, and impromptu sing alongs. When I start conversation, it is because I want to know everything about you.
I am very open and vocal about my thoughts, my emotions, my fears and insecurities. I love intensity and intensely, but it takes time for me to feel comfort and safety with new people.

I'm ethically nonmonogamous/poly. I'm capable of cultivating and maintaining meaningful relationships. I'm capable of monogamy or hierarchical poly, but those are something to work towards and shouldn't be assumed early on, as they are not my preference at this time.

I think that homophobia, sexism, racism, xenophobia, transphobia, hetero and mononormativity are fucking bullshit.

All that being said. I'm a fun guy, honest.
What I’m doing with my life
Wrangling kids and dreaming of burritos. Hatching plans and taking forever to bring them into fruition. Exploring rooftops and backstreets. Documenting street art and watching people.
Thinking about what happens next.
I’m really good at
Dancing the night away, making an ass of myself, figuring out public transit
Overthinking things.
Making chashu pork.
Finding arbitrary, yet tragically hip obsessions.
Setting rules for myself and then breaking them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm amazingly, dashingly handsome
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Short list:
The good, the bad & the ugly
Black Sabbath
Souvenirs D'un Autre Monde by Alcest
Anything by Philip Roth
Confederacy of dunces
Irvine Welsh

The only movie I brought to Japan is El Topo. I don't know if that gives me street cred or not.

I think that the album Pinkerton by Weezer sucks. Somebody had to say it.

I collect cassette tapes. Partially because they are harder to find, so I spend less money on them, but mostly because tapes are awesome. I'll make you a mix tape if you ask nicely.
The six things I could never do without
Here's 6 things I could forever do WITHOUT:
1. Mayonnaise
2. Steely Dan
3. Cockroaches
4. The majority of Hollywood movies
5. Dumb black metal elitism
6. Essentialism
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Black beans and guacamole
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love the band Men At Work
You should message me if
You have any interest in punk rock, craft beer, or hiking.
Or just about any other reason.