Really I am looking to date someone. Male or female it doesn't matter. I want to explore love in its many facets. I want someone I can talk to, someone I can talk with and someone who likes to give was well as receive pleasure.
I'm a geek and pro geek, nerd or dork, so long as you are a nice person. I tend to find that geeks have a similar sense of humor to me and similar interests, but that does not mean I'm ONLY into geeks.
Anyways, I read a lot, play with my kids and love to hang out with friends. I think I am all the stereotypical things that people mention also (good natured, fun-loving, kind, open) but that just doesn't say much about me.
Oddities are the most important things in life. Normalcy is frightening. I love kink, and weirdness and experimentation.
I recently realized that while everyone I know thinks of me as talkative and open, I am SUPER shy. I hate making first moves and rejection freaks me out big time, but I think that's a common problem, hence the dating site.
Life to me is also about the people I surround myself with. I have good friends and they are just as important as my life goals.
I'm also awesome at talking, and I'm getting pretty good at listening. I love to argue, discuss and ask why.
Black Jewels Trilogy
Hitchikers Guide to the Galaxy
As for movies I don't watch a ton of them, of the ones I do I tend to have a depressing selection of intense movies like:
Crash, Requiem for a Dream, Pi, Fight Club.
For the more lighthearted I like a lot of books turned movies like:
LOTR, Harry Potter and the Hunger Games.
I am also a geek for action flicks, sometimes you just need to watch things explode - with examples such as:
XXX, Fast and the Furious (all of them), Red, that one movie with all the hit men in one hotel where they all kill each other.
Last but not least (with movies) I love the quirky films like:
Igby Goes Down, Donnie Darko, Lucky Number Slevin and the like.
Music is something I love, but I can never pin down a genre, for example here are my top 5 bands in no particular order
2. The Beatles
4. BTS (my current obsession, they're part of the k-pop genre)
5. Three Days Grace
For food I am currently on an adventure, trying new things as often as I can and experimenting with flavors. I find I like some curries, and Asian food is amazing.
Also as flip as air and water may seem I do actually mean them. I love breezy days - they are one of my favorite things ever - and I like romping around in the rain or swimming immensely.
My favorite is cooking good food (or more realistically baking sweet treats) with friends and talking about everything until we go hoarse.
Some good old rock band never goes awry as well.
You want to date and have fun.