60 Portsmouth, United States
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My self-summary
Note: I do not have the "like" feature so if I'm lucky enough for you to like me, PLEASE say hello... :-) I'm embarrassed to
say/see how many likes I have yet am frustrated that I don't know you...a quick hello would suffice!

Rumor has it this internet dating thing works, I’m not so sure. However, as an eternal optimist, I certainly hope so since no one is knocking on my front door, bars don’t work for me and my work life is far too hectic. I work too many hours and am looking for an excuse to cut back on that.

I am like most people, looking for a special person to share the things that friends/partners and lovers share....good, bad or indifferent.

This world of internet dating is strange ......really a reverse method to meeting someone. The "established" way was to meet someone in person, then judge the compatibility possibility. This way, you are relying on the visual (hoping all the time it is accurate) and the written blurb to judge a possible match. I am funny, caring, loyal, empathetic and have an excellent disposition. I am happy when I wake up in the morning (actually, we all should be happy, just to wake up) and happy when I go to bed. I am passionate about a variety of things, my kids at the top of that particular list. I am kind, smart and have good values, supportive and a music lover. Notice that I did not mention singer but I do love a variety of music.

As a cartoon character once said, I am what I am...I can’t and won’t pretend to be something I’m not, I just want to be me. People in general (or you) will either like me for who and what I am, if not… well at least I remain true to myself and my values.

I guess in the end, I am interested in meeting someone that I can spend all day Saturday with rather than just Saturday night. I guess a bad comparison (for this) is my kids, regardless of how I feel, I always look forward to being with them, they always make me happy and I never get bored. Whether I am sick, or tired (not to be confused with sick and tired) that's what I want in a woman... I want to always be thinking about her and can’t wait until the next time I see her…she's out there somewhere and I'm still looking.

I’m not into head games, serial dating or the like, I’m just searching for the woman who is all she seems, you understand that a guy can dream….

As a public service announcement, I have two younger kids (12 & 14 who live with their mom) so if that would be an issue, thanks for stopping by but I would not be for you. Finally, I do not want to play "games" nor do I wish to be grouped together with a previous bad experience.

I'm also a swimmer, I swim a mile a day..trying to stay in shape to stick around the planet for as long as I can!
What I’m doing with my life
Living and loving it...
I’m really good at
I will think of something else.............I think.
Wouldn't you really like to know?
The first things people usually notice about me
I guess you would have to ask them.................
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot, love movies, love music, food and the gym.......... too complicated a question to answer easily
The six things I could never do without
Hmm, does anyone really think this should be answered by anything other than my kids? Just asking......
But, in no particular order,
My kids
Health(mine and yours)
Good food

I lost track, how many is that?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the heck I am doing attempting this silly internet dating concept, it can't possibly work, can it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually bored and wondering what I am doing here, trying to explore the seacoast and of course, I have the daily dilemma of trying to find food.........
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I guess you will have to just ask..........go ahead.... ask anything, I am an open book. However, if you ask, I will probably tell, the good, bad or indifferent.
You should message me if
You are looking for a friend, lover, confidant and you have any interest..............