41St. Louis, United States
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My self-summary
I'm 40, single looking for my soul mate. I know not everyone I meet will be him. I am a very fun, happy, positive person, that likes hanging with my friends & family. I like trying new things & going new places. I like doing everything from chilling at home to friends gathering at someone's house, & going out. I am very social & like being around people. I love being outside & try to be as much as possible.

I am looking for someone with enough similar interest to keep us connected, but differences to keep it interesting. I am not looking for someone to complete me, rather compliment me. I do not need anyone... I enjoy life & have the most amazing friends & family. I am very close w/ both. If your in my life it's only because I enjoy you & want you there. I feel that I have: a lot to offer. I am a very giving person it comes natural & is part of who I am. Doing for others is so important to me & makes me happy when I see there smile. It often happens when I'm out & see something a friend would like, or if a friend is having a bad or long day I will make them dinner & take it over for them & there family. I am very well rounded & diverse. I could be found at a friends house doing a home improvment project. As well as doing projects/ jobs like design, decorating, repurposing furniture, distressing furniture. I'm very good at finding diamonds in the rough & making them shine in a new light. (I could find these diamonds in a estate sale, thrift shop, online, suppliers, friends, etc. I also enjoy event/party planning & arrangements of all types. I don't have any children although one might think I do because I am very close w/ all of my friends children & my niece. You will often find me at one of there houses hanging out or playing. As well as picking them up & taking them to do fun things or just go bumming & see where we end up.

I also love doing things outside in most any manner (I don't mind & often very much enjoy projects that require hard work & getting dirty.) I love to cook ( just about anything,) & love eating out just as much. When by myself on a typical day I cook & eat very clean & healthy. When eating out you could find me at local dive to fine dining. When going out I am happy as long as I'm around good people. I can have fun anywhere, it's the people you surround yourself with that's important. I fit in with any type of crowd.
What I’m doing with my life
I enjoy life & living life to the fullest... Although it's the small things in life that I enjoy & that truly make me happy. I love being outside & often at friends house doing projects on there house, yard or maybe doing some planting/landscaping work etc.
I’m really good at
I'm very creative. I love doing projects & cooking..
The first things people usually notice about me
I would say that Im always smiling!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love movies of all kinds. I listen to a lot of different type of music based on my mood & enviroment. I love all types of food from Sushi, Italian, Thai, American, Mexican, Indian, etc.
Six things I could never do without
Good friends, Coffee, My Phone, My two adorable cats...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about life & self improvement. I go to the gym & also workout & one day a week I train w/ a personal trainer. I have a personal goal in mind & I am working very hard to achieve it. When weather is nice often a friend & I will go do something outside to fit in an extra workout & just enjoy the day. Also my friends are my family so I take their thoughts to heart.
On a typical Friday night I am
A typical weekend could be anything from chilling at home to a bunch of friends getting together at someones house to going out w/ friends.
You should message me if
Only message me if you are real & willing to tell the truth about yourself & your life...

I'm not on here to play games. I'm looking for someone real to get to know & hopefully spend the rest if my life with.... (Sorry I even had to add this, some people on here apparently need to be reminded to tell the truth. I learned the hard way.)

If you have similar interests & something in common/or think we would get along well...

If you have any questions just ask...
The two of us