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My self-summary
“Wickedness is a myth invented by good people to account for the curious attractiveness of others.”

-Oscar Wilde

Greetings, OkCupid user! I'm a married polyamorous scientist who regularly presents classes on edge play at kink conventions. Currently I'm working in Blacksburg while I'm trying acquire parts of a death ray and looking for people who can help me construct a secret base, volcano or space preferred but undersea will do in a pinch. When I'm not bothering electrons with lasers or doing uncanny and horrible things to wonderful consenting people I enjoy good beer, good food, board games, and the occasional hike (where I often end up gobsmacked at how fucking beautiful the local area is).
What I’m doing with my life
On an average day, I'm in the lab during the day and either hanging out with friends and lovers at night or at home writing papers and/or playing videogames. In a general sense, I'm looking to find a way to move from a slightly precarious existence as an academic (living the dream as a postdoc at the moment) to something more solid where I can have a home and a community that I'm part of for more than a few years.
I’m really good at
I'm a pretty good scientist, or at least a rather flexible one. Somehow in the last 4 years I've done something new (technique or sub-field wise) every 6 months and almost all of it has worked (with success being defined as producing publications).
I'm a good teacher and enjoyed all the time I spent being forced to TA freshmen physics labs. I have mad skills thanks to my career choice and I can do a bunch of science type things with my hands from microelectronics to plumbing
I've become a cook at home. I now tend to be the default cook for my kin and friends and everyone is quite please with the things I provide for them to consume.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm the excited guy with amusing facial hair and either long leonine locks that are just one bleach job from being in an 80s hair band or a pony tail down to the middle of my back. When encountered in the wild I will likely be grasping a beverage in one and gesturing with the other as I eagerly converse with the people around me.