38Rochester, United States
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My self-summary
I fall into an "Extremely Rare Category" of men, a dying breed if you will. And that's for damn sure! A type who believes that on a 1st, 2nd, or even 3rd date out somewhere ect., "Dessert" doesn't necessarily have to define 2 perfect strangers hitting the sheets in order to get the ball rolling... Still reading??? Great! I haven't lost you yet. : ) I know it's possible, 2 people who've taken a real liking to one another can explore feelings a lot deeper without fast forwarding to "sex", if they chose to. Develop those special feelings that come with real "Patience" & "Time", get an honest sense of who you're actually spending quality time with. ( I'm bettin' I just lost more than half the audience with that line! ) Either that, or your asking yourselves, "Is he for real???" Yeah, he's for real. I know it's going to happen for me one day, it's all one could ever want. To be taken seriously! I gather most of you men out there, if your true to yourselves feel the same way... Still here??? Damn, I must be doin' something right! There's been 2 relationships in my collection that weren't complete Horny Toads. All that aside, I am an honest, loving, open-minded person, & always have been, who's looking for the same... Sound like you? You know what to do then.

I am Respectful, Caring, and Compassionate
What I’m doing with my life
I used to be a full-time "workaholic" long before graduating High School, straight on w/ no stops until just a few years ago. I realized I gotta learn to work as hard as I play, there wasn't much of that to speak of & it really bummed me out. I re-routed my life & evenly balanced the 2 out... No easy task in today's economic times, I'll tell ya.
I've been working @ Rochester General Hospital for 4 years & counting! I'll begin classes @ Monroe Community College as an Art & Science major before the years out, Yes!!!
I’m really good at
Being a "True Friend" to my friends, they're very dear to me. I'm a good listener to other people, lending advice (only when asked).
The first things people usually notice about me
It varies, my dark brown eyes, a smile, and a laugh heard round' the room.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Authors: Stephen King, Christopher Rice, Jacqueline Susann, Danielle Steel, to Nick Bantock, Anne Rice.

Favorites Books? One too many to mention.

Favorite Movie Genres: Drama, Suspence, Commedy, Romance, Sci-Fi, Horror, to Full-on Action/Thrillers. (The most respected)

Favorite Foods: Chinese, Italian, Greek, Mexican, & some Indian
Six things I could never do without
Self Respect
My Friends
My Family
The iPhone

Don't be shy, keep scrollin' down
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My life and it's direction(s), & a life yet soon to be...
On a typical Friday night I am
Working at the Hospital. What a drag huh?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You've made it this far down, Congrats! The 1st, I'm a sucker for a guy with tattoos. The 2nd? Just ask me & I'll tell you.
You should message me if
Any of me appeals to you in some way then we might have something here, who knows? If emailed, I'll always answer back. If we start chatting/email back & forth, I wouldn't suddenly cut off communication for no reason at all. Losers do that. You know who you are! ...In a nut shell, I'm looking for your average sincere man who wants to get to know ya 1st. No Bullshit when it comes to pressures on sex, (that goes both ways.) A male that thinks with his head & not with his ass, or what's goin' in it 2 miniutes later. I've met my share of the Unsure, Self Richous Queens, & Straight Acting Wannabe's that'll never grow up. When "certain" gayz forced to come face to face with that "pivitol age"... 29 goin' on "30" (any day now) they're world falls apart. It's very sad to see, yet "More Hilarious" to watch!!! They self destruct & die inside, they don't get half as much play, slap on that... obvious "happy face" for all to see. As if those in their late 20's, (RARE!) & past 30 can't already read what they're thinking?
Most likely the rest of their lives they'll tell themselves in privite or in the mirror everyday, "I'm ok, I can handle, I'm fine..." "Sooo I'm Not exactly the life of the party anymore! MEN, to all of you whom this applies, marks the 1st adult day of the rest of your natural lives. If you can admit there's truth to this for everyone out there in cyberland, Congratulations! You can survive me.
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