guy_frm_iponema
49 Evanston, United States
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My self-summary
So, OkC offers something called 'incognito', where you can check people out on the sly. And I'm thinking, 'it's a dating site - if you checked them out, isn't that a positive? You think they're attractive; you checked them out; maybe they feel good that you checked them out; and, you are after all looking to meet women..."

I don't get the downside. It's not like I'm discovering an embarrassing secret about you - "Hey, I can tell from this profile that her cat hasn't been neutered, and that hussy-ass pet is out in some alley, producing unwanted kittens, which will be given away to people who go to baseball games for the free shit and over-priced beer, and..."

Where were we....
I'm a big music fan- I tend to see at least one show/month; am told I look a lot younger than I am (ie the pics are current). I run a couple of Loop-based businesses which I started 20 years ago, which gives me some flexibility with my most valued commodity - time.
I would really like to find someone I connect with, whom I can't stand to be away from, whom I can spoil, whom I complement and vice versa, and who appreciates all the beauty life offers. Having been married before, I understand that it takes a high level of commitment to make it work, and I am looking for someone who 'gets' that and is willing to put in the work.
What I’m doing with my life
I write music, and front an indie rock band; I go to a new restaurant each month with friends I've known for 20 years. I'm trying to learn meditation and it's hard as hell. I exercise, and love wine.

I've been divorced for 11 years, and am looking for a great woman.
In a potential mate, I value honesty, self confidence, self knowledge, curiosity, affection, warmth, integrity, smarts, a good sense of humor, and someone who takes care herself physically. An intellectual side is important to me.
I’m really good at
listening
The first things people usually notice about me
I often hear I look 10 yrs younger than my actual age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Here's a cool, newer local band to check out: https://soundcloud.com/eves-twin-lover
Book - I love David Sedaris and Malcolm Gladwell's stuff; A Confederacy of Dunces;
Movie - The Big Lebowski
Music - Modest Mouse, Wilco, The New Pornographers, Elliot Smith, the Replacements, Spoon, Guided by Voices...
Food -- love it all
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being present.
If putting herself on every cover helps or hurts the sales of Oprah's magazine. If Maroon 5 has to pay royalties to Michael Jackson's estate
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