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My self-summary
Let's do something more fun. Potential dealbreakers:

-- I'm living a somewhat nomadic life currently. In the past two years I have lived in four cities in three countries (San Francisco, Seattle, Berlin, and Buenos Aires), as well as home, Israel. I will be in Seoul for a few months in the fall, and afterwards probably back in Israel again.

-- I don't know what the role of monogamy is in my life yet. Maybe it's right for me; but maybe I would function better in something nonmonogamous. Let's find out together?

-- I'm fairly kinky, and I enjoy exploring sex and sexuality. It's not something that is (or has to be) a part of every sexual encounter I have, but it is something I like having in my life in some capacity.

If I haven't scared you away yet, let's talk!
What I’m doing with my life
Currently spending the summer in Israel, working for an exciting startup in Tel Aviv.

Studying for my undergraduate degree (computer science and statistics) at a new / exciting / weird program called Minerva. We move around cities all over the world, taking classes in small seminars online and living in different cultures.

When I'm not studying, I love playing ultimate frisbee and exercising (crossfit, and sometime climbing), eating delicious foods (particularly if they're new or spicy), reading, hiking and traveling, and the occasional movie or TV series.

Before all that I spent six years in the military in Israel, and a year traveling in South America (Argentina, Chile, Antarctica, and a stint in Brazil). Traveling is wonderous.
I’m really good at
I have a pretty good memory for random and meaningless facts, but sometimes embarrassingly forget names (but once I remember the name, everything else comes rushing along).

I'm also a pretty good cook, and always happy to improvise something new, not bad with a frisbee, and I read very quickly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd imagine it's glasses if I'm wearing them, or my eyes if I'm not. Back when I had my hair dyed purple I had an easier answer to this question.

Personality-wise, I'd like to think it's openness and directness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read, but don't do it nearly as much as I'd like. My favorite book I've read this year is Americanah. I'm currently reading Superforecasting and The Undoing Project. My all time favorites are Ender's Game (and Ender's Shadow), the Lord of the Rings series (including The Hobbit), and a whole bunch of other sci-fi and fantasy.

I mostly listen to rock - Red Hot Chili Peppers, Alt-J, Franz Ferdinand, and Arcade Fire, for example. If I'm trying to get work done, I'll probably have some classical music or jazz playing in the background.

I can watch anything by Tarantino again. Especially Pulp Fiction. I'm a sucker for Star Wars and Lord of the Rings, and really enjoy Top Gun and Ten Things I Hate About You, as slightly embarrassing as it is.

TV: Doctor Who, Sherlock, and Archer are undoubtedly my top three.

I eat everything, especially if it's spicy.
Six things I could never do without
-- Friends and relationships, someone (or someones) special to share all of this with. Good conversations with better company.
-- A smartphone with internet access; having the world at my fingertips is basically magic.
-- Physical activity. Current favorites are ultimate frisbee, crossfit, hiking, and some climbing.
-- Food, beer, wine, and the occasional scotch or gin drink.
-- A good book. The Kindle gives me dozes in my hands.
-- Wonderful, passionate, rough, invigorating sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Different life decisions and how they led me here, what to have for dinner, what the hell I should focus my studies in, feminism, kink, opening myself to some things I'm still wary about, you know, the usual.
On a typical Friday night I am
First and foremost, a delicious meal with friends and family, accompanied by a good beer, a glass of wine, or perhaps three. Afterwards, something fun with friends - drinks? Board games? A movie? You tell me!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On the first day of high school (after moving to California from Israel) I accidentally walked into the girls' bathroom... Luckily no one else was there and I moved on as if it never happened.

My semi-nomadic life makes things harder than I'd like, relationship-wise. I think the best I can hope for is casual intimacy, at least until my life stabilizes a little more.
You should message me if
Above all, if you're into open and honest communication, regardless of whether we're meeting for a drink, a one night stand, or the relationship of the rest of our lives.

Beyond that, if you don't mind meeting for a coffee or a beer (or scotch), and seeing how well we get along in real life. You think we'll have fun talking and seeing where it goes.

Especially if you're GGG and kinky, to any direction (I tend to switch).
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