47 North Plainfield, United States
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My self-summary
It takes a special breed to handle me (get your mind out of the gutter - we don't know each other yet). I'm passionate, emotional, outgoing, creative, strong-willed, opinionated, independent, proud, and at times, I expect A LOT.... and those are just the good tings. :) But I don't expect anything more that I'm not willing and able to give of myself. AND.....I know how to recognize and admit when I'm wrong and apologize for it (and mean it).

I'm not a serial dater - I want a real relationship with one man. I know who I am, what I want, what I don't, what I'm capable of, and what my short-comings are. I know life is too short to worry and complain about the bullshit and I know that we have to play the hand we're dealt and it's not always a good one. I'm not looking for a FWB situation so please don't waste our time.

If you're interested, by all means, message me, but if you don't put any effort into it, I most likely will not answer and I think that's only fair, don't you? "Hey, nice pictures" is not going to turn my mind on so much that it's going to make me race to my keyboard so I can type out a response to your titillating email. Okay, add sarcastic to the list of adjectives that describe me. I'm working on it.

I'm in a band and most gigs are not close to me so it's a lot of driving. I also work a good distance from my home, however, if we connect, I will absolutely meet you! I like a couple emails.... then some texting to see what we have in common, then I like to meet fairly quickly. That's how I operate. I'm not a huge phone person, especially when I am finally at home.

Anyway.... that's enough.... drop me a line if you want to take a chance and actually get off this site.
What I’m doing with my life
Reevaluating priorities.
Working on my band.
Trying to be a kinder, nicer person and just a tad less sarcastic.
I’m really good at
Seeing the other side of the situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and how outgoing I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Random things (in no particular order):

Singing, music, Dahlias, drums, photography, the smell of fresh cut grass, big dogs, the beach at dusk, boats, skulls, ping-pong, shooting pool, movies, presents, dining out, my family, making Italian dishes, four-wheeling, Gerbera Daisies, champagne, small towns, cat bellies, Halloween, hats, hot baths, Christmas lights, ghosts, stick shifts, big sweatshirts, pit bulls, green eyes, rainy day naps, baseball hats, paw prints, trying things I've never done, live music, dominance, saying what you feel, quoting stupid movies, not beating around the bush, surprises, long, passionate kisses, COMMUNICATION
The six things I could never do without
1. The memory of my dog
2. Music
3. A camera
5. Ice
6. My pillow
But not necessarily in that order
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People and what nut-jobs they are.
How most people I come across get themselves dressed and find their way to work by themselves everyday.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing a gig, relaxing, out to dinner... what's typical?
You should message me if
You have something to say (not just "hi").... and you are willing to take a chance and actually meet - not just email for three weeks.