31Montclair, United States
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My self-summary
From Northern Minne-snow-da = never gonna root for the Yankees - Go Twins!

Try to err on the side of listening rather than talking - sometimes it works out other times not so much. Will be a harsh judge upon myself but always allow and assume extenuating circumstances for others - strangely one-sided view that I am hoping to come across more often than not.

Lived in Brooklyn for a couple of years - city was nice but I am not a big city guy at heart. Moved to Montclair NJ late May 2017 and I really like the area a lot. Definitely more my type of city.

Pretty busy with work but this is a pretty common issue, so no excuses from my perspective, just being up front about it.

I am a real sucker for raw fish - both sushi and ceviche - would choose the later over the former if I was forced but it's sort of a Sophie's choice for me.
What I’m doing with my life
trying to make some memories
I’m really good at
being really allergic to cats.

finding the silver lining to the situation, but then usually just ignoring it

being in nature - i was a Lumberjack in MN for a period of time - no joke
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Vonnegut, Salinger, Hesse, Camus, Bach, and the list goes on

Movies: bit of a film buff, so, yeah, this is a long list

Music: Alternative, 90's, jazz, classical - basically everything but commercial rap and country

Food: adventurous - if it's good enough for someone to cook it, that implies it is good enough to try (at least once)
Six things I could never do without
basic amenities, friends, family, something new to learn, a comfortable couch, the promise of summer
You should message me if
you want to grab a bite and talk about how you are totally right and i was completely & unwittingly mistaken

you want to get a drink and discuss all those things that no one else seems to be interested in

you want more info

you have a good head on your shoulders and would like to meet someone else who is cut from a similar cloth
The two of us