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My self-summary
I've been compared to Kaiser Söze from the movie "The Usual Suspects". If you know what that means, we're off to a good start. I appreciate mystery, subtlety, and the non-obvious, hidden, powerful parts of life.

Underneath that is honesty and love and play.

I'm part of a really great group of people (onetaste.us) looking to ignite the world through female orgasm and teaching people how to relate more truthfully, connect more deeply with themselves and the people in their lives, and live fuller, more turned-on lives.

People have told me I'm intriguing and mysterious. I am a layer cake of a person. Different favors at different levels of depth. I've been working more and more to become approachable, and to approach others more.

I'm looking to meet anyone with a similar awakeness to me. I want to learn how to be more free in life and do the work to have the opportunity for others to be more free.
What I’m doing with my life
Making music, teaching and coaching about female orgasm, figuring out day by day what it means to wake up!, and working my Silicon Valley day job
I’m really good at
Orgasmic Meditation, music, Hunyuan Taiji, computers, cooking, being a friend, listening
The first things people usually notice about me
My height, my looks, my reserved demeanor, my ethnic ambiguity, that I dress well
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Frank Ocean, Kate Havnevik, La Roux, Lemonade, The Naked And Famous, U2, Lana Del Rey, Björk, James Blake, Fleet Foxes, M. Ward, Twin Shadow, Miguel, Beach House, Drake, Rihanna, Talking Heads, Imogen Heap, Passion Pit, Electric Youth, Tom Waits, Garbage, Jessie Ware, The Antlers, Perfume Genius, Sharon Van Etten, M83
Six things I could never do without
Coffee, my family, my friends, my tribe, meditation, my iPhone :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Integrity, how to light up people in my life, how grateful I am for my life, how to see and tell more truth in the world
On a typical Friday night I am
At the movies, recording in my studio, having dinner with a friend, spreading OM
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I have a meditation practice where I keep my clothes on and stroke a woman's pussy for 15 minutes then we get up and go about our days.
You should message me if
You want to live a more vibrant, turned on life, you're interesting, you have something to teach, you like retro 80s/90s indie pop, you're a scrappy, misfit toy. You like the unusual and the extraordinary
The two of us