To choose a lover, you must know what you are seeking and trust that as Rumi stated, “what you seek is seeking you.” When you are deeply living from a place of authentic truth, you will find those who are doing the same. From that space, you will no longer be standing in a buffet line, tasting the options but will be following your bliss to the place you most desire and filling your plate with that which fulfills, sustains and enriches your being.
I am a positive person who laughs a lot and likes cheering up grumpy people. I love travelling and travelled around the world in 2010 by myself. I have a masters degree in Biotechnology. Currently, I am finishing my PhD (Neuroscience). When I am not busy with my thesis, I enjoy playing tennis, dancing, cooking and a hot bubble bath.
ESTJ-T (the executive; http://www.16personalities.com)
sharing my endless motivation
discussing and organizing stuff
that I am shorter than I look on pictures
food: sweets (!), cheese, focaccia with pesto, risotto - did I mention cheese?
music: causes, latin, beth gibbons, the xx, jack johnson, moby, santana, pink, die ärzte, adele, Lorde, Sido, Acda en de Munnik - changing daily depending on my mood...mainly indie rock
movies: inglourious basterds, he is just not that into you, Amour, Alles is Liefde, everything by Paul Verhoeven
TV series: Im an addict!
how I met your mother, the big bang theory, the closer, the apprentice (UK), new girl, game of thrones, greys anatomy, black books, raising hope, seinfeld; shameless....
books: around the world in 80 dates, 1984, the handmaids tale, die Wand (Marlene Haushofer), what I talk about when I talk about running, Daniel Glattauer, Lena Dunham, Murakami,...
friends (not really "things" though..)
relationships and how to make them work
why people build or buy houses and get married....
probably writing (thesis) or out with friends
you know what chivalry means (essential)
you are a positive person who always sees the good things
you don't live too far away - what's the point, really?
if you are looking for a mental, spiritual, emotional AND physical connection.