48Redondo Beach, United States
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My self-summary
I am ridiculously happy with my life. I have a career I love, singing professionally and teaching music. I have an extraordinary family with whom I work and play on a daily basis. Everyone who has fallen for me has fallen equally hard for my family so beware. I have two gorgeous children who are still very young (4 & 6) and therefore still think I am a goddess. I’m enjoying that while it lasts knowing it is all too fleeting. I am hands-down in the best shape of my life and feel physically, emotionally and sexually amazing. I had no idea 47 was going to be like this!

I am not looking for a father for my children. That job is already taken. What I am looking for is a friend, partner, playmate and lover for me. I’m seeking that palpable chemistry, the kind that has you feel your lover enter the room before you can see them. If that sounds like foolish fantasy to you, then please skip to the next profile. If, however, you know exactly what I'm talking about, by all means read on.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend some of my best time raising my 2 young kids. I'm also extremely blessed to be doing what I love professionally as a singer and voice teacher. It keeps me very busy but never does it feel like work.
I’m really good at
Almost anything I put my mind to. I love a challenge, both professionally and personally. I love transforming situations that seem impossible. I'm an outstanding parent to my kids. I take really great care of the people that I love and nothing gives me greater pleasure and satisfaction.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smokin' hot bod of course! Seriously now, from a purely physical standpoint, I do get complements on my hair…I am genetically gifted in that area. I am also told I do not look my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm happiest when I have a great novel on my nightstand. An all-time favorite is "The Art Of Racing In The Rain". I try to read books before seeing the movies on which they are based and I teach teenage girls so yes, I've read the "Divergent", "Hunger Games" and "Twilight" series. Should I have put that under "Most private thing I'm willing to admit"? Other favorites include "Time Travelers Wife" and "Water For Elephants". For the record, I read those before there was any movie deal in the works. I also enjoy a fair amount of non-fiction/self improvement such as "Rich Dad, Poor Dad", "Let Me Hear Your Voice", "Under the Banner of Heaven", "Holographic Universe", etc...
I love movies of all kinds but am a wimp when it comes to horror. Favorites include: Out of Africa, Pulp Fiction, Sex, Lies and Videotape, Best In Show, Silence of the Lambs, Fight Club, Legends of the Fall (Did I seriously just admit that?), Raising Arizona… This is too hard, there are way too many.
I have been loving the amazing quality of series television lately. "Breaking Bad" rocked my world. I'm currently loving Nurse Jackie, Mad Men, Masters of Sex, Modern Family, Walking Dead, Shameless.
As for food, eating is my favorite pastime. I love checking out restaurant recommendations of all kinds and know that many of the best eats come from the most casual of venues. I don't gravitate toward steakhouses, I tend to prefer ethnic dining (Thai and Middle Eastern are some favorites) or a place with great fish options. I'll try anything!
Six things I could never do without
Great Food (That's 7, I know...)
Fulfilling Work (Now I'm up to 8, Sheesh!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something fun with my sister which can include live music and new people or a $25 massage and mexican food. I've also been known to relax at home with a glass of wine and look for you on OK Cupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love monogamy. I love commitment. I have never experienced jealousy or possessiveness in a relationship. If I am committed to you, you feel it on a cellular level. I love the freedom that commitment affords me to be sexually expressive, creative, generous, vulnerable and free. I spent the better part of the past decade with someone who was repressed. During that time I needed to shut down one of the most beautiful and powerful aspects of who I am. That felt like a death to me and now I have come alive again. I am anything but uptight when it comes to sex BUT, let me be clear, I have no interest in casual hook-ups. I am looking for something much deeper.
You should message me if
• You live in the South Bay or VERY nearby.
• You already have children and don't wish to sire more.
• You live a full and fulfilling life and can be patient with my parenting schedule.
• You exercise and take wonderful care of yourself so you feel as great as you look.
• You love deeply and are sexually open and expressive.
• You have impeccable integrity.
• You are financially secure and responsible.
• You don't think this is an unreasonable list.
The two of us