I am hoping that you will get a little insight into whom I am.
I want to say, “ I am a very easy going kind of guy that tries not to take life too seriously”, but I would be lying. I would like to be more easy going, and that is where you come in, your laughter, your smile, the way we interact, will allow me to open my heart and nothing will seem insurmountable, because you have my back, and I most certainly, will have yours. It is just the way I am wired.
My life has always been wrapped around work; but it is time for me to branch out and find someone that will enjoy our time together.
A large part of being what I call a good man is being a provider, and a good one at that. I just don’t want to feel that I have to bury you out of your financial problems.
I am a loyal friend, I do not want to control you or change you. I want to succeed at making sure you feel safe with me. I am not a bully, I have no desire or need to make you feel small so I can feel tall.
I am not commitment phobic. I know this as I have survived being married for 24 years. And let the truth be known I could have gone the distance. I am not a believer in this” throw away” world that we live in. I do not think that the grass is always greener somewhere else and I hope you don’t believe that also. I need to feel safe in a relationship and so do you.
I enjoy getting out of LA once in awhile. I welcome the opportunity to have a partner in crime, and am really looking forward to my world opening up to your life. Clearly, I do not want the “Energizer Bunny”, I want more fun in my life without having to be responsible for creating it. I am looking for someone to collaborate with in our fun.
Baggage and drama, are not the same to me, We are all a package deal but what we do with the baggage and how one handles it, is the key. I am Not willing to invite a bunch of Drama into my life. The greatest thing that can happen is to find someone you care about and that baggage just starts to disappear on it own.
I am looking for a lady that is pleased with herself; and what God has given. I want her to be comfortable with herself; and not try to please everyone; just the important ones- family and me. I am very attracted to the quality of woman that is pleased with what she does and wears her accomplishments as a badger of honor. It does not matter the title of her accomplishments, what matters is she takes ownership and celebrates her personal best.
I have a lot to offer the right woman. If you have read this far I welcome your questions or comments.