48 Madison, United States
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My self-summary
I’m an outgoing guy that can be found smiling more often than not. I get along with a diverse group of people and can appreciate and admire something in everyone. I’m an excellent listener and enjoy everything from educated chats to silly banter. I chose to spend my time doing many different things but there is always something that is not the norm. Basically I'm like Cristian Grey, except I'm not rich (but have a really good job), I won't stalk anyone and I won't do anything without consent. (Yes I read the first book, I didn't like how it was written)

I’m looking for someone that can laugh with me at our own mistakes and enjoys giving a hard time as much as receiving. I am an independent person that enjoys down time and comfortable silence, but when with someone I care about there’s nothing more I’d rather do than spend quality time together. I do like watching sports and some tv, but would much rather be doing something else..unless it's a Bears game. Yes I know a Bears fan in WI but what's a guy born in Chicago to do?

I’ve learned that life is too short to worry about one’s own short comings and others impressions so I thrive with open honest communication without fear of judgement. I am looking for the "One" who is my best friend, my lover, and my partner in life.

BTW I do actually read and pay attention to profiles. For example If you say you don't like facial hair, I won't contact you, if you say you're looking for someone who is 50 miles from you and I'm 75-100 miles away I won't contact you and so on. (I am willing to consider moving with the right person IF we both agree there is a good chance of things working out)
What I’m doing with my life
I am constantly learning about myself, who I am, what I want, and what I need in life. I like the person I have become but there is always some room for improvement.

I do enjoy my career in aviation. It has given me opportunities that I'm sure I would never have had in most careers. It does take me away from home, but then when I am home I'm able to enjoy what life has to offer.
I’m really good at
Annoying people, it seems I can do this with little to no effort what so ever.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have been told I can come off as intimidating because of my size or stature (6'2" 250lbs) but thankfully after seeing a warm smile, and my eyes, along with speaking with me for a short time people can get past that quickly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read but don't get to read as often as I like. I am more into military, spy, and suspense novels, but do also enjoy books on history.

I really like movies and can't really say I have a favorite. I prefer action and comedies but also like drama, romance etc.

I enjoy a lot of different types of music. It depends on my mood, but generally listen country, classic rock, and pop.

I am the same way with food. I like all kinds of food it depends on the mood and how hungry I am at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
My car ( the freedom to travel whenever I want)
Kitchen utensils (I really enjoy cooking and entertaing)
laughter (granted it could just my own)
Being open minded
Friends (Mine are my chosen family)
Sex (lets face it nobody wants to live without that)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I would say life in general, the future, my goals, family, friends, relationships.......oh who am I kidding. Usually it's stupid things like how is that people don't know how to use their turn signal, or why would anyone wear something white to an Italian restaurant and so on.
On a typical Friday night I am
I would say I never have a "typical" Friday night. It can be anything from staying home watching a movie, going to a show, going out to a cook out, hanging out with friends, doing a get away weekend, and so on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll have to actually chat with me to find that out.
You should message me if
If you got this far in my profile and want to.