48 Madison, United States
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My self-summary
I’m an outgoing guy that can be found smiling more often than not. I get along with a diverse group of people and can appreciate and admire something in everyone. I’m an excellent listener and enjoy everything from educated chats to silly banter. I’m as comfortable spending a cool summer evening on the deck enjoying my iPad as I am going out hanging with friends at a variety of arenas. I’m not really into clubbing until the early hours of the morning but enjoy late nights with the friends I love as much as family. Evenings can often be walks in the cool weather, watching sitcoms, casual dining, or going to a movie. I travel often for work (would love to find someone to travel with for pleasure) but I am home most weekends and often times parts of the week. It is very important for me to have a welcoming home as it is often filled with friends and family creating unforgettable memories.

I’m looking for someone that can laugh with me at our own mistakes and enjoys giving a hard time as much as receiving. I am an independent person that enjoys down time and comfortable silence, but when with someone I care about there’s nothing more I’d rather do than spend quality time together. I do like watching sports and some tv, but would much rather be doing something else..unless it's a Bears game. Yes I know a Bears fan in WI but what's a guy born in Chicago to do?

I’ve learned that life is too short to worry about one’s own short comings and others impressions so I thrive with open honest communication without fear of judgement. I am looking for that special someone, for the "One" who is my best friend, my lover, and my partner in life.

BTW I do actually read and pay attention to profiles. For example If you say you don't like facial hair, I won't contact you, if you say you're looking for someone who is 50 miles from you and I'm 75-100 miles away I won't contact you and so on. (I am willing to consider moving with the right person IF we both agree there is a good chance of things working out)
What I’m doing with my life
I am constantly learning about myself, who I am, what I want, and what I need in life. I like the person I have become but there is always some room for improvement.

I do enjoy my career in aviation. It has given me opportunities that I'm sure I would never have had in most careers. It does take me away from home, but then when I am home I'm able to enjoy what life has to offer.
I’m really good at
I'm very good at open, honest, direct communication. I do enjoy conversations about pretty much any subject, willing to listen and discuss anything, even if it ends in agreeing to disagree.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have been told I can come off as intimidating because of my size or stature (6'2" 250lbs) but thankfully after seeing a warm smile, and my eyes, along with speaking with me for a short time people can get past that quickly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read but don't get to read as often as I like. I am more into military, spy, and suspense novels, but do also enjoy books on history.

I really like movies and can't really say I have a favorite. I prefer action and comedies but also like drama, romance etc.

I enjoy a lot of different types of music. It depends on my mood, but generally listen country, classic rock, and pop.

I am the same way with food. I like all kinds of food it depends on the mood and how hungry I am at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I would say life in general, the future, my goals, family, friends, relationships.......
On a typical Friday night I am
I would say I never have a "typical" Friday night. It can be anything from staying home watching a movie, going out to a cook out, hanging out with friends, and so on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll have to actually chat with me to find that out.
You should message me if
If you can communicate open and honestly and have interest in getting to know me.