I'm kinky. I had to come out to my mom, accidentally, that was NOT FUN. I have an extremely active work life and like to go to the gym for group classes when the time presents itself. I'm personable and friendly. I don't really talk well to new people, but I'll always try to listen.
I'm not really that great at describing anyone. Including myself.
I'm a member of DamnPortlanders, good times.
I'm not sure what I'm looking for right now relationshipwise. People and their personalities interest me more than their naughtybits. I'm not into one-night-stands, but that doesn't mean I'm 100% against casual sexy interaction. There must be a connection, a friendship before you're likely get much romantic attention or sexual intercourse from me. I'm interested in open poly-type relationships, but I'm currently not romantically attached.
I lived in VA for a long time and now live within Portland city limits in the Mall 205 area. I have also lived in CA way in the way back and was born in NY.
I do a lot of different things in my professional life at any given time. First and foremost, I'm currently mostly being a stay at home dad to a darling 3-year-old. I'm a theatre technician. I do stage union work as well as work for a number of other theatres, large and small. I have done production management for an amazing nonprofit theatre company doing a Christmas show even though for just about anyone else, a Christmas show wouldn't really be my thing.
I have a BFA in theatre lighting design, but I mostly use the knowledge to do general tech work. I love lighting most of all, but as a stagehand, I do some of everything. I have done apartment maintenance work and furnace repair/installation, but I am doing neither of those things right now.
I'm good at organization and taking things in stride. I do electrical stuff and I like figuring things out. I have welded. I can do Vectorworks.
Relationshipwise, I like serving others, but I don't know if I would be good at it. I like giving foot rubs and other massages.
I actually am not as cultured as I'd like to be. I used to read all the freaking time, but I don't really have much time anymore. I love me some Tales of MU, Stephen Hawking, Neil Gaiman, Stephen King, Ray Bradbury, Terry Pratchett, and Douglas Adams. I like science, humour, comics, fantasy, sci-fi, and many others. My tiny person and I have been reading The Graveyard Book by Gaiman.
I read webcomics. Quite a lot of them, really. I'm sorry. Some of my favorites I can remember offhand are Girl Genius, Mushroom Go, Goblins, Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal, A Girl and her Fed, Least I Could Do, Looking for Group, XKCD, Order of the Stick, Something Positive, and Perry Bible Fellowship. I loved Freakangels and Domenic Deegan..
I don't really watch movies or TV much. I DO like movies such as Secretary, May, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Moulin Rouge, Dr. Who, et cetera.
Music is a weird thing for me. I don't listen to music very well. It only ever turns into background sound for me. That being said . . . Incubus, Jim's Big Ego, Stephen Lynch, Rammstein, Korn, show tunes, et cetera.
I like food. Macaroni and cheese, green olives, beef jerkey, sushi, lobster, artichokes, cob corn, and strawberries, among other things. I used to think I didn't like chocolate especially well, but then I had good chocolate. Turns out, I'm a chocolate snob. I don't like mint, nuts, peanuts, coconut, or bell peppers.
I probably enjoy the Naked Bike Ride on a different level than I'm supposed to-one that in fact may make it illegal for me to be naked in public by Oregon law. Oh well. Do you partake in the WNBR?
I'm a compersive pervert.