34Portland, United States
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My self-summary
I'm laid back and open-minded. Queer-friendly, poly-friendly, kink-friendly, 420-friendly, whatever. As long as you're not hurting anyone with what you do with your free time and personal interests, no one should give a single fuck in a negative way what you do with your free time and personal interests.

I'm kinky. I had to come out to my mom, accidentally, that was NOT FUN. I have an extremely active work life and like to go to the gym for group classes when the time presents itself. I'm personable and friendly. I don't really talk well to new people, but I'll always try to listen.

I'm not really that great at describing anyone. Including myself.

I'm a member of DamnPortlanders, good times.

I'm not sure what I'm looking for right now relationshipwise. People and their personalities interest me more than their naughtybits. I'm not into one-night-stands, but that doesn't mean I'm 100% against casual sexy interaction. There must be a connection, a friendship before you're likely get much romantic attention or sexual intercourse from me. I'm interested in open poly-type relationships, but I'm currently not romantically attached.

I lived in VA for a long time and now live within Portland city limits in the Mall 205 area. I have also lived in CA way in the way back and was born in NY.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently picked up a Nintendo 3DS. I'm playing Smash Bros. mostly. Dare you to best me regularly. My friend code is 4141-4324-4889.

I do a lot of different things in my professional life at any given time. First and foremost, I'm currently mostly being a stay at home dad to a darling 3-year-old. I'm a theatre technician. I do stage union work as well as work for a number of other theatres, large and small. I have done production management for an amazing nonprofit theatre company doing a Christmas show even though for just about anyone else, a Christmas show wouldn't really be my thing.

I have a BFA in theatre lighting design, but I mostly use the knowledge to do general tech work. I love lighting most of all, but as a stagehand, I do some of everything. I have done apartment maintenance work and furnace repair/installation, but I am doing neither of those things right now.
I’m really good at
I'm pretty good at screwing around online, it would seem. I can waste amazing amounts of time.

I'm good at organization and taking things in stride. I do electrical stuff and I like figuring things out. I have welded. I can do Vectorworks.

Relationshipwise, I like serving others, but I don't know if I would be good at it. I like giving foot rubs and other massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
It used to be my rainbow hair. At the time of this writing, it's shades of purple. People sometimes say I have Guy Fawkes facial hair. Due to my line of work, I'm often dressed in blacks and have my multitool at my side. I'm tall, but not awe-inspiringly so.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I pick A.

I actually am not as cultured as I'd like to be. I used to read all the freaking time, but I don't really have much time anymore. I love me some Tales of MU, Stephen Hawking, Neil Gaiman, Stephen King, Ray Bradbury, Terry Pratchett, and Douglas Adams. I like science, humour, comics, fantasy, sci-fi, and many others. My tiny person and I have been reading The Graveyard Book by Gaiman.

I read webcomics. Quite a lot of them, really. I'm sorry. Some of my favorites I can remember offhand are Girl Genius, Mushroom Go, Goblins, Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal, A Girl and her Fed, Least I Could Do, Looking for Group, XKCD, Order of the Stick, Something Positive, and Perry Bible Fellowship. I loved Freakangels and Domenic Deegan..

I don't really watch movies or TV much. I DO like movies such as Secretary, May, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Moulin Rouge, Dr. Who, et cetera.

Music is a weird thing for me. I don't listen to music very well. It only ever turns into background sound for me. That being said . . . Incubus, Jim's Big Ego, Stephen Lynch, Rammstein, Korn, show tunes, et cetera.

I like food. Macaroni and cheese, green olives, beef jerkey, sushi, lobster, artichokes, cob corn, and strawberries, among other things. I used to think I didn't like chocolate especially well, but then I had good chocolate. Turns out, I'm a chocolate snob. I don't like mint, nuts, peanuts, coconut, or bell peppers.
Six things I could never do without
Kink/sex energy, friends, pants with enough pocketspace to carry all of my pocketstuff, my phone, my plants. I'm a regular pot smoker, but at times, I'm a temporary teetotaler. Even then, I don't object to the partaking of others.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Becoming a father. The shortest path between two points. Worrying I don't make a good friend. The darker side of sex. How attractive some people's boots are.
On a typical Friday night I am
On the computer or at the theatre. I'm a lost cause. Help!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I already admitted to kinkiness. What more do you want? I generally identify as a bottom/sub and somewhat of a masochist, but my position isn't set in stone. I'm really into rope. You get bonus points if you can find me on Fetlife.

I probably enjoy the Naked Bike Ride on a different level than I'm supposed to-one that in fact may make it illegal for me to be naked in public by Oregon law. Oh well. Do you partake in the WNBR?

I'm a compersive pervert.
You should message me if
My house is on fire, my children are burning, this cheeto you found reminds you of me, you can offer me work, you want to hang out sometime, you want to check out my succulent garden or want some cuttings, you'd like to further examine my pervitude, or you just want to chat. I'm a pretty open person.
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