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My self-summary
I wasn't sure I wanted to get back on this site. I'm sure someone will convince me it was a really good or really bad idea.

I recently made a major career change. It's weird.

This summer I moved to the Kansas side, and now I have a strong hatred for the Kansas DMV.
What I’m doing with my life
I was in social work for 5 years before moving on to the IT field. It's a big change, but so far, so good.
I’m really good at
Seeing the bright side.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm kind of short, I can be really blunt, I probably have the prettiest eyes in the room (in the whole wide room).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- DSM-IV-TR (I can't wait for the 5 because I'm a giant nerd... even though I'm not exactly happy about some of the changes), Harry Potter series, the classics (especially Brit lit), anything by David Sedaris and Steve Martin.

Movies are tough. I used to work in a video store, so I've seen a lot of things. I'm not big on super girly movies or action movies. I love Woody Allen, Tarantino, Kubrick, Wes Anderson, the Coen brothers, and Judd Apatow.

Shows- Dexter, Girls, The Office, Arrested Development, LOST, Weeds (the early seasons), United States of Tara, Law & Order SVU, Modern Family, The Daily Show, the Colbert Report, SNL, HIMYM, American Horror Story.

I'll listen to anything except country and most rap. My favorite is Ben Folds.

Food- I guess it should be noted that I am a vegetarian. I like ethnic food, my favorites are Mediterranean, Thai, Japanese, Mexican, and Italian, but I also really enjoy a good sandwich place.

Also, I notice that sports isn't a specified anywhere on here. I love football. I'm a die hard Chiefs fan, but I guess if you're still a Chiefs fan at this point, you don't have a choice but to be a die hard fan. My family has season tickets, so I'm at Arrowhead most Sundays during the fall.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I have to get done, money, vacation, random thoughts
On a typical Friday night I am
Driving to my destination for the weekend, meeting friends at a bar, or staying at home and going to bed early. It varies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I just want to get to the comfortable stage in a relationship.
You should message me if
You want to.
You aren't mean.
You are doing something with your life.
But not if...
You have kids (sorry, it's a deal breaker for me. I'm not ready for that)
You plan to start your message with some kind of pet name, such as beautiful, pretty, gorgeous, etc. I'm not a pet name kind of girl, especially since I haven't met you.
You plan to start the message by demanding my phone number... not going to work.
You are looking for some kind of threesome situation.
Your first message is asking me to come to your place. I'm flattered, honestly, but I've never met you. How do I know you aren't some kind of serial killer? Seriously, public places for a first meeting, please.
The two of us