Reading voraciously is one of my favorite hobbies and is much of how I pass my time. I enjoy going to clubs and dancing when I am in a happy/hyper mood. Swinger' meet and greets are gatherings that I have found extremely entertaining and filled with people that are generally friendly and out for a good time. Poly gatherings are much the same but so far I have noticed they involve more discussion and less drinking and dancing. I am not someone who will stick my, well really any part of me, in just anyone. Chemistry and personal connections are ultimately important and strongly determine how I interact with anyone I meet. I do however feel that you can never have too many friends and open minded fun loving friends are a blast to be around! I can not stand drama!! Drama falls into every life now and then but some people absolutely seem to love swimming in it. A good attitude will carry you a long way in a river of shit and often times beach you on a shore of wonderfully fragrant flowers. I avoid people that never see the flowers because they're constantly looking at the shit!
I enjoy dating and socializing which is how I try and spend most of my free time. Having wonderful companions and friends is, what I feel, one of the greatest joys of life! - Silverware and tupperware are clean, now it's write a little while smoking a bowl then do bowls, plates and maybe glasses :0). - I have a couple of intimate friends that I see occasionally, a long distance girlfriend that I see on weekends every few weeks, & a girlfriend that I usually spend most weekends with. I used to spend more time with the one, but a while back her other boyfriend had housing issues and moved in with her, that put a kink in our time together, especially because the "novelty" of sharing a bed with 3 people has worn off for him. This last part is important because it deals a little bit with what I am looking for ;0D
I am looking for people that are comfortable with their own body, people that take interest and pride in their sexuality, people that are open and accepting of others, people that whether bisexual or not are comfortable in sexual situations with others of the same sex, people that enjoy a cuddle puddle, a bit more, or sleeping in a bed with others. I want to find others that are truly willing to do for others what they would like done for themselves.
My vivid imagination
Lust for life
A sense of freedom and the mind not to give a fuck about the rules of others
A belief in tenderness, compassion, love, lust, and the kinkiness of others and myself
The ability to shape shift and live inside out
May 2013 be just as relaxed & always more sensual!! :0D