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My self-summary

Hope you are well. Ready for summer so I can wear my toe ring in the sand again! (laugh)

Looking for a normal, single guy who is honest, confident, loyal, smart, kind -- and can laugh/have fun. And I know "normal" is a relative term. (laugh)

I'm down-to-earth, giving, fun, loving, successful, independent, and straightforward and have a good sense of humor. I'm easy to talk with and can laugh at myself too.

Have great family and friends with a home, SUV, good job with normal hours M-F, with a solid life/work balance -- just looking for a fun partner. Still like it when a man opens the door for me though (weird, I know). (laugh)

It is not about where we go--I'm pretty casual. With the right person, I can be anywhere and have fun. It's about the person -- having fun and sharing some laughs. Casual pub food is always a great time. Black Eyed Sally's is fun!

Jeans and flip flops are my preferred dating attire so I can relax and take a break from the "dress up world" of work. In an office all day so I like to get outside and get some air after work. My 20-year career in the insurance industry makes me sound very boring, but it is what it is (smile). It's really not as boring as it sounds--I like my job and our team.

Most summers, I pack up my SUV and spend a few weeks in Cape Cod with my toe ring on. You'll know it is vacation time when you see me slide on my toe ring. At The Cape, it's swimming and biking by day and fires, s'mores and chardonnay on the beach at night. I have my boating license and jet ski license as well -- so I'm legal to drive on the water.

My bucket list includes zip lining, a white water rafting trip and bungee jumping. It's okay --if you're not into it, you can watch. Every other weekend is a "kid-free" weekend for me, Friday afternoon-Monday afternoon and some weekdays/weeknights are kid-free as well. Adult time is fun! (laugh)

Two fabulous daughters who are 12 and 9, going on 15 (laugh). I have a lot of kid-free time which is fun.

Tux, our "rescue adoption" and so much fun -- he's a black lab/hound mix, 43 pounds (full grown). He already has a "fan club" at soccer games. Only have one dog (the profile click option only had a dog (s) plural option.) Never thought I'd be a dog person, but I am now (smile).

Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. Hope I didn't make you fall asleep (laugh) and I look forward to hearing from you soon. And if I'm not a match for you, I wish you only the best in your search. Look forward to the day I'm off this site (laugh).
What I’m doing with my life
In the process of planning a beach camping trip this summer --- should be fun.

Hope to be happily off this site soon. After some interesting experiences, I'll never wonder if the grass is greener on the other side now (laugh)
I’m really good at
Entertaining friends and family.

Being a fun, loyal and giving partner.

Pretty good cook -- so I'm told (laugh). Like to grill -- even in the winter.

Great mom with my two girls.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually receive comments about my smile and fun sense of humor, but I never asked anyone that question so I don't really know. (laugh)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Look forward to just some fun beach reads this summer -- nothing heavy.
The six things I could never do without
My daughters
That special guy (hope to find him soon)
Really, I just need those four, can't think of six
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Depends on the day/night. (smile)
On a typical Friday night I am
It varies each Friday night and depends on whether it's a kid-free weekend or an adult weekend. Every other weekend is kid-free from Friday-Monday afternoon and I have kid-free time during the week as well.

Options include:
Out with friends for dinner or drinks.
Cookout or fire pit on my deck. Maybe a movie.
Soccer or basketball game, when the girls play.
Shoot hoops in the driveway and s'mores for dessert, if I have the girls.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmm, this is difficult one. I'm not putting that on a public profile. (laugh). You'll need to get to know me to learn this one. (laugh)
You should message me if
If you're a good guy who is in my age range (not a cougar) is honest, confident, fun and looking for a normal relationship, located in Connecticut and not married or kinda married. Only respond to men with photos (it's only fair). Thanks for your help.