I have always had the craving to serve as a submissive or perhaps "babygirl," but only recently have I had the courage to seek out men truly dominant in their own LIVES, not just in the bedroom. I find myself slightly outside the "vanilla" world, attempting to gain insight into what I really want in a personally tailored relationship for two. If you think something is missing from most modern relationships that is essentially human, that is where I caught my interest in trying something different. Most self-proclaimed "Doms" I have met have been wannabes with no clue what they were doing...they were just in it for the sex. I am NOT, as much as I love and long for sex. I am seeking a Dom, Daddy, or Master, NEW or EXPERIENCED, who can learn me, as I will him, mentally, physically, and sexually. A male who wants to develop a real relationship where communication is the NORM, not the exception. I'm imperfect and could use help finding my true voice in a male/female enterprise. This is a concern because I have a tendency to lose the joy I find in my female role when I slip into transforming myself into what I "think" he wants. I blame American media tropes, and try to stay the hell away from anything of the sort. :)
My willingness to serve goes very deep, but I am submissive, NOT passive! You'll find I have strong opinions and can take care of myself. In fact, I think it takes a stronger woman to truly open herself and be vulnerable to a man she trusts with her life. I simply believe that humans haven't changed for essentially 40,000 years, and no veneer of civilization can alter that, so I am adapting my approach to find what I want. I have a B.A. in Psychology and I am studying for dual Master degrees in Appalachian Studies and Public Administration in graduate school at Appalachian State in BOONE. That said, I don't necessarily care if you have a college degree; I was bright long before I got my undergrad parchment.
I am brunette, 5'6", and have an hourglass figure (38-28-38). My breasts (perky C cups) and my hands (elegant, with long fingers) are particularly beautiful. I have green eyes and a very pale, Scots-Irish complexion. I am grateful to be easily, multiply orgasmic, including orgasms from breast stimulation alone.
The qualities I seek in a male are strong intelligence, EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY, (yes, it is so rare I had to capitalize it) and sexual experience. To find a dominant man who is willing to try something different, but quintessentially human, with me is the relationship for which I'm searching.
I recently received this compliment from a far-away gentleman on OKC: "You are smartass, silly, sweet, and submissive to your soul... what more could a man seek..." I am honored by this.
I am very self aware and know what I am looking for, so please read these before contacting me.
Please make sure you can seduce me with your mind BEFORE your body and will, or it ain't gonna fly, friend.
I wish a real relationship with my partner, so I would like someone close to my age who can best relate to where I am in my life, what my particular proclivities are and can sympathize with the road I've already traveled. Therefore, I feel I will have the most success with men over 35 or under 60.
Take heed, ye who respond here: PLEASE BE POLITICALLY LIBERAL. Dated a Republican once, for 4 years, and Iraq happened because his type of patriotism was blind and common. Never again.
I will only respond to SINGLE men, but BOONE is a tiny oasis of knowledge in the mountains of NC, and I am relocatable for the right man. Not seeking one night stands, but a physical and consistent relationship with my PARTNER, who happens to be more dominant just as I happen to be more submissive.
P.S. If you've read this far, I'm pretty sure you don't have ADD. Huge plus!
Movies: Alien, Forbidden Planet, The Avengers, The Thin Man, North By Northwest, The Zeitgeist documentaries.
Television: The Walking Dead, Hell On Wheels, Justified, Grimm, Sherlock, Downton Abbey, Game of Thrones.
Music: Delta blues, Irish fiddle tunes from Appalachia, 60s/70s AOR, 80s New Wave, 90s Alternative. Nick Cave, Johnny Cash, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Etta James.
Food: Grilled/roasted veggies, turkey, pork, tuna, Fox Barrel Pear Cider, Angry Orchard Apple Ginger Cider. IPA beer is disgusting, give me a Stella and erase your damn chalkboard.
I listen to Spin Doctors radio on Pandora. It makes me smile.
You find my pale Scots-Irish heritage attractive.
You enjoy dry humor or sarcastic wit, and the BBC.
You're smarter than the average bear.
You are EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE and have TIME to get to know me.