58Tulsa, United States
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My self-summary
Ok, I am tall. For a woman very tall. 6 foot. I dont try to hide it by wearing flat shoes.. I wear what I like :) Some guys just dont like tall women if that is you, then keep on moving cause there is nothing I can do about that. If that is not a problem then this is me. I love my life, but it would be more fun with a partner. I am self sufficent and pretty good at taking care of myself. I spent the majority of my adult life raising my two grown sons, and now it is my turn to plan for my future. I enjoy my time alone but there are some things that simply are more fun with someone to share it with. I like to travel and really want to try some new things. I am told I am funny, I sing, I have a strong faith and would look for someone who has a similar belief. I love to cook, dance, swim, dance anything outdoors and just overall like to be active and busy. Did I mention I like to dance? In a relationship, hmm heres what I want. I want to ultimately find someone to spend my life with. Someone who will be as happy and excited to see me as I am to see them. Someone who cant wait to see me at the end of the day and who wants to work towards a future with me. I know this takes time, and doesnt happen over night but ultimately thats the bottom line and I guess I am kind of a bottom line gal :)But for the record if you think after one date or meeting youre going to get lucky or that our first kiss will be a tongue wrestling match I am not your girl. To me those things are intimate and happen when there is chemistry and a connection. That doesnt happen instantly but with time and learning about each other. And I am not the needy type, I dont need you to call me every waking moment and if you do and expect me to call you back or answer every twenty minutes you will be disappointed. Oh dont show up at 11:00 p.m. where you know I am going to be and think you are my date - thats a booty call and I dont do booty calls. You want to spend time with me awesome, but not as an after thought as a part of a mutually agreed upon plan.

All of this leads to one fact - Mutual respect
I have self respect and I will show you respect. and will accept nothing less from my partner.

Gosh guess I sound bitchy and demanding but I am not. I just am a grown up woman who knows what works for her and what she wants out of life
What I’m doing with my life
I am focusing on getting healthy body, mind and spirit. When you are a single parent for as long as I was you dont have time to focus on yourself. The single parent part of me is done, now I am working on me and finding out what I really like to do. Hope that doesnt sound selfish, I think its something that is necessary.

I want to make sure that when I fall in love again, I am the best I can be. I want to be a valued part of my mates life and secure enough to know it.
I’m really good at
Singing. I love to sing, and do it as much as possible. Mostly at church as part of the praise team. I am pretty good at making people feel welcome and comfortable and I am told I am funny. I like making people laugh and once I am on a roll, look out baby.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably the fact that I am very tall - 6 foot tall to be exact. I think the next thing would be is that usually I am smiling and in a good mood
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Gosh, books - This is embarrassing but i love a period romance novel or a great supense mystery. Movies, something that makes you feel good or puts you on the edge of your seat..nothing devilish or bloody or spooky. Music you name it I like it Food... trying new things but love mexican and italian
Six things I could never do without
God, My children and family. My curling iron :) a good book and a cell phone lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the future holds for me. Where the heck is the man of my dreams and how long will it take to find him.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking for entertainment,trying to figure out how to get everything done on Saturday that I want to do :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have spent alot of my life feeling invisible, and this new spirit in my life makes me feel a little vunerable.. its new and I am not so sure how I like it
You should message me if
I seem like someone you might like to know, if there is no romance who cares I can always use new friends in my life
The two of us