hmincks
40 Munroe Falls, United States
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My self-summary
How do you summarize all that you are? Ok. I have jokingly described myself as an old Polish hippie grandma that wears red lipstick. I think in life we are expected to categorize ourselves and not have conflicting parts. I am an amalgamation of those parts. I'm comfortable in my own skin, I'm kind, giving, but to a point. I can tell when I'm being given some b.s., and will call a person out on it. I have a strong personality, smart, goofy, quirky, sharp, and am stronger than I appear. But I'm also able to laugh at myself and accept other people for who they are. I hope that sums it up.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm busy loving my job. I'm an esthetician and manicurist. Please Google it before asking, thanks. I'm good at what I do. I hang with my kid, read, strive to constantly improve as a person, cook, and do mostly domestic goddess type things.
I’m really good at
Dropping things. I'm also good at accidentally hurting myself. Its a skill. Um, but seriously, I'm good at taking care of other people, cooking, growing stuff, and so many other random things like removing splinters, fixing toilets and desk chairs, and sniffing out bullshit.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my hair. The fact that I usually look lost in thought. I'm frequently asked, "Do you work here?" Even when I clearly don't. Haha.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: memoirs. I love people's stories. I dig Bukowski, he was such a crabby cool dude. Any Audre Lourde, Steinbeck, Vonnegut. I'm currently tackling some deep metaphysical stuff. I'm a bit of a bookworm.
Music: jazz, jambands, pop, classic rock, 90's rap and alternative, folk, just about anything other than country. My Spotify is a ridiculous mix of various styles.
The six things I could never do without
My kid, my phone, mascara, a toothbrush, coffee, and a good knife for cooking.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be more resourceful, what I need to do tomorrow, that stupid song stuck in my head..., why so many guys are thinking about a zombie apocalypse. Really though, I like to immerse myself in a topic I'm interested in and think my way through it. Nerd alert...
On a typical Friday night I am
Working at the salon, then coming home to chill so I can have sleepy time. Not opposed to going out, but there is a simple joy in sitting on the couch and enjoying a bowl of cereal for dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Yeah, right...
You should message me if
You are an intelligent, hardworking, normal guy. If you're open-minded and creative. If you have all your teeth(yes, really), if you know the difference between "there" and "their." If you're a quasi-hipster/hippie that enjoys good food and coffee. If you've ever listened to the Dead Milkmen or the Cure as an awkward seventh grader. If you think we would connect. If you're interested in more than a short-term type of situation, and want to actually date, have a relationship, etc.
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