20 Breda, Netherlands
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My self-summary
The hardest self summary:

I am a shy guy. I take my study very seriously, but I just need someone to chat with. I am prepared to meet new people, but I do have this awkwardness-factor in the beginning. My friends tell me I am pretty laid-back, so I guess I have a bad self image.

Some facts about me:
- I am very rational and do not make decisions out of intuïtion or feelings...except for romance,
- I am very stubborn and tend to be a bit of a smartass sometimes, but I can minimize that.
- I am pretty good at adapting myself to others and sometimes even refer to it as acting, but of course I am looking for someone with whom I can be myself.
- I am not open about my sexuality and I'm not ready to let the world know. There are a few close people who I did tell about my sexuality, but they keep it secret.

I think I made a okcupid profile because I'm sick of fake friends and might want to start something more serious. Not only am I basically looking for someone who wants to have a good time and who I can trust, but their might be this slight chance that that person or maybe someone else on okcupid is my potential partner.

For me, there are no boundaries when it comes to making friends and other relationships. The distance only decreases the succes of a certain relationship.

Oh, yeah and I am not paying this site, so I can not see if you like me. I suppose you should tell me by sending me a message ;)

----->I thought it would be fun if I would tell some of my turn ons and turn offs. If a turn off matches with you, it doesn't mean I don't like you.

Turn ons:
In terms of health, mental skills and believes: non- or not-so-serious-about-it religious people, intelligence and humor.

In terms of physical condition: fit, muscled, possibly skinny/thin, near my length and near my age.

Character/personality: cozy, caring, reliable, honest, bit romantic, spontaneous and social.

Remaining turn ons:
-likes to travel
-likes to perform sportive activities together

Turn offs:
In terms of health and believes: Drug-users (also smoking), alcoholics (prefer someone who barely drinks), strict religious people and piercings.

In terms of physical condition: Overweight.
What I’m doing with my life
I am studying IBMS (international business and management studies) which consumes most of my time here, but I can also often be found in cinema's or restaurants (not really a fan of pubs, but they're OK).
I’m really good at
-Giving critisism XD
-Listening and giving advice (People say I'm someone you can rely on in terms of telling me your deepest secrets and problems. I even actually like to help others with their issues.
The first things people usually notice about me
-That I am not as tall as they expect me to be. -->
-That I am very shy, so I usually don't make the first move.
-They notice that I might be a bit more mature.
-I have several faces.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-I am not really a fan of books. Althought I sometimes read books like ''De aanslag''/''De donkere kamer van damokles'' (dutch literature mostly)

-Action, comedy, adventure, I like almost every genre

-I like game-shows.....

-I can't really make a choice.

-As long as there is meat, I will be okay...
The six things I could never do without
-My study
-My friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching a good movie with some friends or I am bussy studying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Although many people think I am an arrogant and dominant person, I am actually inconfident about myself and very sensitive.

Asian people like to take pictures with me...

I love cuddling. I don't know why...

Is there something like being too open?...Yes...if someone I just met an hour ago would ask me how long it has been since I masturbated for the last time, I would say it...with a serious face expression...
You should message me if
-If you just want a nice person to chat with.
-If you want to ask me anything.
-because: why not...I may sound a bit boring at first, but still...give it a try...

Or are you bored? Then try this little quiz:

Find out if I like you (These tests are in an experimental phase and might be inaccurate):