homostache
31Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
Hi brave cuties, I'm in an open partnership with someone I love and am looking for fun and sexy dates and friends with benefits.

I'm an anti-imperialist, tough, warm queer femme. I'm a top leaning switch who likes to pick flowers & consensually slap faces. I'll (probably) make you blush. (I'll also bottom or sub for you if I want to and you're lucky 😘). I'm intense, loving, attentive, politicized and bossy. I love poetry, consent and listening to you. I love the ocean.

Black lives matter. FTP. Anti-Zionist, abolitionist, Syrian Jew/ Witch. 🌊🌕🔪💖🍑

Woo me, plz.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working to build intimacy and networks of mutual support in my communities, spending time with my friends who I love more than I could express here, lifting weights sometimes, walking around the lake and looking at the twisty trees and funny looking birds. For money I'm the ED of a youth led social justice organization for Jewish 14-18 year olds. They're currently organizing for climate justice and against Islamophobia and they're generally badass.
I’m really good at
Being really honest and assertive, asking people out first, loving, making the best salads ever (turns out I have a penchant for thinking well about vegetables), bossing around queers who are into that dynamic (swoon), building and maintaining friendships, playing with toddlers and calming down crying babies, maintaining eye contact, listening carefully
The first things people usually notice about me
My warmth, that I'm a flirt, and that I'm outspoken, I think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Allepoan food of my grandmothers. Period.

Frank Ocean. Tracy Chapman. Um Kulthum.

Nayyirah Waheed/ Salt. Naomi Shihab Nye/ everything. Octavia's Brood. Written on the Body. Critical histories of psychiatry, settler colonialism and white supremacy. (To balance it out I watch shows like America's Next Top Model, Master Chef Junior and Broad City. Classy, I know.)

Poems, always poems.
Six things I could never do without
Water: rivers, oceans, lakes, puddles, rain drops, bring it!
Cross class, queer community/ my crew
Decolonial, anti-Zionist, queer and feminist rabbis
Intimacy
People who care about honoring ancestors and elders
Reminders of what is wild still, in the city: flowers blooming, trees growing, birds flying, tides shifting, that full moon tho
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- How to express what is hard to express in the most honest way and in what form

- Filthy kinky sexy play and gorgeous, badass queers

- How to love my friends better, how to love my partner better

- How to take better care of myself and counter patterns I learned about "self-sufficiency" under capitalism: those lies are deadly

- How to support and be a part of communities resisting colonization and white supremacy, all the time

- How to mobilize my love of care-taking as a politically radical act
On a typical Friday night I am
I looked through my calendar from the past few months cause I wasn't sure and it turns out I'm basically only doing one thing: Shabbat dinner FTW!
You should message me if
You care about being kind, present and honest and you keep trying when you mess up. You're DTT (down to talk, hehe) if talking is what's needed and/ or you're DTF (I often am, so please feel free to be straightforward!)

You're a queer babe, you're kinky and/ or a pain slut, you want to go on a date, you're into the fact that I'm Jewish and Middle-Eastern but not in a tokenizing kind of way (you get it?)

You like to fight for the top and lose sometimes.

You're respectful of sex workers and committed to a liberation that includes sex workers, trans women of color, young black men, people of all abilities and all genders, young and old people, Muslims, people who live outside the United States, Indigenous and First Nations people, poor and working class folks, Jews, water and the earth: and you're able to keep love close to your politics

You're willing to take risks and be vulnerable sometimes for the sake of liberation and relationship because you know what we're not perfect but damn those parts are the parts of you I'm going to find most attractive, I already know it.
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