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My self-summary
Let's say I am not your ordinary run-of-the-mill person, and I don't want to be. Nor am I looking for one.

You can say I am the man your mother warned you about. But that might be a good thing.

I am intense, demanding, laid-back, understanding, creative, more than a little interesting, and sometimes a tad boring. Throw in intelligent, painfully honest (and insistent on honesty from whomever I am with), sensual, and endlessly curious, and you're getting close.

In the interest of truth-in-advertising, let me say right up front that I am not looking for a vanilla relationship, nor someone who expects or wants one. I am very kinky, dominant, erotically sadistic, and highly sexual. I'm not looking for a wimp or the squeamish, but I learned the hard way that there can be only one pair of hands on the wheel at a time, and someone who understands and accepts that would be most likely to embrace my approach.

I'm also not looking for someone my own age, or close to it. To grossly generalize, I find most people close to my own age to be jaded and boring. My strongest affinity is for women much younger than me, from legal age up through their 20s and 30s, and I find that my experience and maturity and their youthful excitement and growth make for a magical combination. I can be a Daddy to the right "little" girl, or just a great and supportive life companion. That's my preference, and I don't apologize for it.

I also prefer someone who is at least in reasonably good shape, attractive, and as sexually attuned and kinky as I am -- or open to expanding their kinkiness. A strong intellect and a creative bent are right up there in importance to make a great match. I expect a lot in someone, but I expect them to expect a lot in me, too. And race or nationality are not an issue for me -- compatibility is.

I listed "job" as "Artistic / Musical /Writer" since my creative pursuits -- primarily as a writer -- motivate me the most, but in terms of my work life I run several of my own businesses in the realm of international business services from my home. A creative life partner would be an ideal since I have several creative projects I would like to pursue in concert with someone creative.

I've lived and traveled all over the U.S., have lived and worked in seven countries overseas, and have traveled in something like 70-some countries and territories on every continent except Antarctica (yet to come). I am at a turning point in my life and am looking for my next jumping off point, maybe in this country, maybe in another, and would love to plan that move with someone close.

So now that I've blah-blahed enough about myself, how about you? Something here strike a cord, interest you, maybe pique your curiosity? Then shoot me a message and let's see where things lead.

Life is short. Hope to hear from you soon.
What I’m doing with my life
That's a damned good question. Planning my next big stage. Ready to move on to exciting new things. Want to join me?

I am now on the edge of one of life's ledges and looking to see where I am going to jump to. Might be in the U.S., might be any of several other countries. That might seem a tad strange, but I've been here more than seven years, and that is longer than I have lived anywhere since leaving home for college many suns ago. It is time to move on before life becomes unbearably stale.

It would be great to find someone who also is looking to make a move in her life, whether she knows what that move might look like or not. Planning a new life stage together is incredibly exhilarating and to me that would be the best.
I’m really good at
Most things I put my mind to. Or my tongue?

Seriously, if I am not good at something and can't learn to become good at it, I tend to not do it.

The tongue part is important, too. I love the taste and aroma and feel of a woman on my tongue and lips, and love giving her pleasure . . . just as I love receiving pleasure from her.

Sex to me is a vast territory to explore in all its aspects, and the kinkier and dirtier and more taboo it is, the more sensual, intimate, and liberating. Know what I mean? Want to find out?
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm open, accepting of a lot of things (and not so much of others), unshockable, demanding of the best in people I am close with. People tend to trust me, and I do my best to honor that trust.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books . . . like Hemingway, Fitzgerald, Nin, Kerouac, Joyce, Cohen, Oates, among others.

Movies . . . sexy and cool, dark, horror, action . . . Blue Velvet, Two Days in the Valley, Citizen Kane, Pulp Fiction, The Hills Have Eyes, American Beauty . . . I have only about 600 or 700 films in my collection, so you get the idea. I also am an addict for True Blood, Shameless, Californication, Dexter.

Shows . . . haven't seen much lately.

Music . . . blues, especially, and jazz, classic rock'n'roll, bluegrass, intelligent country, classical . . . just about anything good, except rap and opera.

Food . . . omnivorous . . . especially fond of Italian, Middle Eastern, Indian, all kinds of Oriental, seafood, down home American food.

As you can tell, my tastes tend to be pretty eclectic in most things.
The six things I could never do without
Honesty, sex, communication, interest, food, water, air . . . not necessarily in that order. Oh, wait, that's seven.

Dunno, other than the necessities of life, I find it important to be flexible about things like "thing I could never do without." You never know when you might have to do without those things, and life can be hard enough with having to endure such privations. I take my pleasures where I find them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
. . . too much. Really.
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying to unwind and change mental gears for the weekend. And wondering where my soulmate is.

I tend to work just about every day and night, a bad habit I know. I need an inducement to break it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Don't ask unless you really want to know.
You should message me if
You see something we have in common and want to explore further. I don't bite . . . well, I do, actually, but you'll like it.