Speaking of "don't look the part", one of the first things people notice about me is that I seem quite different from my profile picture !!? Of course that would be for those who actually meet me in person, (which is precious few), and as it turns out, there is a good reason for the discrepancy in looks: The profile picture is NOT ME :) Now this is not some malicious plot or nefarious scam, but rather it stems from my need to be very discreet, and that "being discreet" means that I can't afford to have my real photo "in circulation" on the web. So I have selected the photo you see in my profile with the idea that it will give you a general idea of what I look like, without running the risk of my real photo being "out there". I know this seems a bit suspicious, but I assure you my stated need for being discreet is the reason. Note that I am advising all readers that this is the situation.
If you think you might be such a woman, that would be a good reason to give me a shout. I'd love to go meet you and go back to your place to investigate some/all of the activities described herein :)