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My self-summary
I only left the bookstore because a song came on that felt like my theme music of the moment and I thought people may want to see me walk.

On Wikipedia pages I skip to the section on Death before reading anything else, not morbid just intimate and most personal.

I laugh loudly and often. I think I'm funny. I'm a lazy workaholic. A bit of an asshole - but not in a malicious sense but moreso a blunt + honest + genuine sense. I'm also really sweet and affectionate. I'm a clumsy and graceful country girl who has been all over the world (insert obligatory cliff pic here). I am many things that won't fit here or your expectations - and that's a great thing.

I'm deathly allergic to bullshit. Stay away from me murderer.

Though it may sound cliché - I'm generally just interested in meeting cool, fun, down to earth people who have their shit together.
What I’m doing with my life
Professor 🤓
I’m really good at
Vodka infusions ... but I drink whiskey
Reading people
Solving problems
Making people laugh
Being a Mom (but he makes it "easy")
The first things people usually notice about me
Your perception of me largely depends on your self-perception.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Current Theme Song: Illusions of Time (Kiki King & creativemaze)

Sample of most recently Starred on Spotify:

Is There Anybody Out There? (Laura Mvula)

The Charade (D'Angelo)

Only (Nicki Minaj)

The Wheel (SOHN)

If You Want Me to Stay (Sly & The Family Stone)

Keskin Biçak (Sezen Aksu)

Looking Too Closely (Fink)

Distance (Emily King)

Two Weeks (FKA Twigs)

Fall in Love (Phantogram)

Snatch It Back and Hold It (Junior Wells, Buddy Guy)

...and all things Sesame Street
Six things I could never do without
Curiousity / Humor / Perspective / Freedom / Creativity / Serendipity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why was little Nikki grinding in a hotel lobby?

Doesn't it make more sense to have a recent, significant ex complete our dating profiles?

Eradicating racism

On a typical Friday night I am
Most likely something on the lower key end of the spectrum
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Some of you have led to me answer ... nothing
You should message me if
You're interesting and awesome. Not the I live on the bleeding edge so I can post pics on Instagram and you'll like me, you'll really like me type of interesting...not that you'd know it if you were that type :)

Or you want to tell me where you are or where you're going on the off chance I'll come out to meet you.
The two of us