34Warsaw, Poland
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My self-summary
I'm a fun person with a sarcastic, slightly morbid sense of humor, lots of curiosity about how things work, lousy attention span when it comes to hobbies, a strong love for peace and quiet, and low tolerance to people who treat others without respect. I'm still blurry on the specifics of what my life is supposed to be like.

I know for a fact that I'm happy by the water. Unless it's very cold. I go to bed early most nights and wake up - not necessarily get up - early most days. I listen to a lot of music. I can't believe there are people who don't read - I appreciate a good plot more than many things people find exciting. I like listening to all the little stories from your life. Fun! I'm rather low maintenance, the downside of which may be that I'm also rather messy. If you want a guarantee that your cup is clean - wash it yourself.

In truth I don't normally capitalize "I" and the first word in a sentence. I do it here to appear more solid. Or something. Normally I think text benefits little from capitalization of things other than proper names.
What I’m doing with my life
Wasting it away. What else is there to do?

Honestly, though, I'm just trying to live day by day without disliking myself. This has started working pretty well by now, I'm getting the hang of it. (You might guess from this that it hasn't always been the case. Feel free to congratulate me, overcoming over a decade of depression it a pretty awesome achievement. Haven't come around to setting up any more major goals just yet, though. Just being a good person on a daily basis will do for the time being.)
I’m really good at
Organising. Planning for trips. Practical applications of math and geometry. Knitting. Reading books til my eyes bleed. Doing things with my hands. Keeping my cool when I really just want to tear someone apart. Teaching others what I know. Learning stuff as I go. Taking the lead when nobody wants to. Stretching.
The first things people usually notice about me
Long, long hair if it's down... And if they see me every day, they might notice I have a huge collection of earrings. Otherwise I have no idea. I'm torn between not wanting to be noticed at all and being a total diva.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have rather eclectic tastes. I like both kitch and snobbish things, and countless things inbetween. To name a single example of each: Margaret Atwood, The Lion King, anything by Joss Whedon, The Daily Show, HIM, sushi. (I'm intentionally listing few things here cause I hardly ever have the patience to read through other people's detailed lists in this section.)

Also, this doesn't ask about games, though it should. I play card and board games with friends, and periodically I dive into the World of Warcraft and stop having a life for a while. And I also like comic books as a medium. I really want to be the Engineer from The Authority.
Six things I could never do without
(Attention) (I can, but would rather not do without it.)

I did say I was low maintenance...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How miserable I am. How not to be miserable. What's for lunch. Music. Being rich and famous. Being a superhero. Numbers. Knitting projects and other crafts. Love. Earrings. How stuff can go very wrong. Money and how to need it even less. How to say something in Finnish. How to move to Canada and not starve or be thrown out. Life, death and everything inbetween.
On a typical Friday night I am
At my computer, solving puzzles while listening to music. If there's some cool event out in the city, I may be there instead. Sometimes playing card and board games with friends. Sometimes reading. And in my WoW phase(s) - WoWing.

You will not find me clubbing or at sports games. And I won't be watching TV either, since I don't even have a TV set.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no trouble admitting to private things, but nothing interesting comes to my mind right now.

Oh, hey! I have issues with alcohol. If you drink frequently, I will probably deem you an alcoholic and be scared of you, cause I have no idea what "normal" alcohol use is supposed to be like, and you can't tell me that either, cause alcoholics live in denial.

Also, I really don't like kids. I would only consider having my own if there'd be a guarantee I wouldn't need to work, ever. Which is unlikely to happen, so if you're looking for a pair of child bearing hips to come along with your home budget contributor, go away.
You should message me if
You're brave enough to search for the awesomeness in me despite my many shortcomings (nah, I'm great!). You're Finnish (or Canadian! or both!) and are looking for a trophy wife. You wanna learn to knit. You wanna spend tons of money taking me out to sushi. You like Joss Whedon and want me to take you to the greatest costume party ever. You wanna take pictures of my cats. Or if you simply feel like it.

You shouldn't message me if your profile is empty. Also, messaging and instant messaging are two very different things. I do not respond to "hi".

Oh, BTW, smoking is an almost certain deal-braker for me. Not sure how awesome you would need to be to be able to trump that. Sadly.
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