hwiley
28 Berkeley, United States
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My self-summary
Writing
Self-studying herbalism
Making peppermint rooibis mate tea
Queer
Exhibitionist excursions
Yoga is union
Flow art
Laughing from the heart
Deep discussions
Kink
Watching sunsets
Bondage
Meditating
Watching sunrises
And the list goes on...

*****I have non-monogamous relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
Listening, learning, loving...and making mistakes along the way :)
I’m really good at
Empathizing
Inspiring
Listening
Loving
Embracing vulnerability
Giving respect
Making love
Talking philosophy
Oral sex
Conflict resolution
Cooking you dinner
Massage
Acting like a child (with or without other children)
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't see how I would know this :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books/articles
-'The Power and Promise of Ecofeminism' Karen J Warren
'Things Fall Apart' Chinua Achebe
-'Yes Means Yes, Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape'
-'Cunt' Inga Muscio
-I really love Alan Watts; 'The Wisdom of Insecurity', 'This is It', 'In My Way'
-The zen buddhist text Awakening of Faith
-The 'Tibetan Book of Living and Dying' by Sogyal Rinpoche
-'The Ethical Slut' Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
-Murakami
-Hemingway, particularly his poems

The list goes on, but that's enough for now yea?

Films
I like to watch documentaries, but also enjoy a well crafted piece of cinema. Broken Cameras, is a very amazing and important film. Some others: Pulp Fiction, Amélie, Almost Famous, City of God, My Life as a Dog, Shawshank Redemption, Spirited Away, Akiro, etc..

Music
Well...you'll just have to ask me. In brief, I like everything from Delta Blues Folk to Deep House to Gypsy Jazz
The six things I could never do without
Love
Sex
Passion
Spirituality
Art
Compassion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
philosophy
anthropology
sex positivity
all the possible ways to love
alternative societies
genderblending
relationships
polyamory
how I can be an ally and still respect the bounds of allyship

whether humanity is a fruit or infection of the earth
On a typical Friday night I am
Howling at the moon
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me anything
You should message me if
I'm seeking connections with passionate, independent people. I want to connect with people for whom authenticity is important.

-You'd like to play, dance or drink tea/kava.

-You want to spin fire and/or do some skill sharing with poi or contact staff, etc

-Or if you're a human with lots of love & positive vibes to share, I'd like to connect with you!

I have quite a bit of cis gay/queer male energy in my life so in terms of meeting cis men, I'm mostly desiring connection with switchy femme guys with similar interests.

Also I strongly discourage obnoxious one sentence messages. Send a thoughtful message. If you can't think of anything thoughtful after reading my profile, then you're probably not genuinely interested in me or my interests. Engage me, I dare you.

As for other genders, I'm open.
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