Wolves-and-Ropes
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My self-summary
Been traveling a lot these last few month Costa Rica--> Catalonia --> France--> Catalonia---> LA

I'm looking for authentic people without expectations

Writing
Herbalism
Peppermint rooibis mate tea
Queer
Exhibitionist excursions
Yoga as a state of being (not an appropriating work-out)
Flow art
Deep discussions
Kink
Watching sunsets
Bondage
Meditating
Watching sunrises.
What I’m doing with my life
Letting authenticity be my guide.

Listening, learning, loving...and making mistakes along the way :)
I’m really good at
Empathizing
Inspiring
Listening
Loving
Embracing vulnerability
Giving respect
Making love
Talking philosophy
Oral sex
Conflict resolution
Cooking you dinner
Massage
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't see how I would know this :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books/articles
-'The Power and Promise of Ecofeminism' Karen J Warren
'Things Fall Apart' Chinua Achebe
-'Yes Means Yes, Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape'
-'Cunt' Inga Muscio
-I really love Alan Watts; 'The Wisdom of Insecurity', 'This is It', 'In My Way'
-The zen buddhist text Awakening of Faith
-The 'Tibetan Book of Living and Dying' by Sogyal Rinpoche
-'The Ethical Slut' Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
-Murakami
-Hemingway, particularly his poems

The list goes on, but that's enough for now yea?

Films
I like to watch documentaries, but also enjoy a well crafted piece of cinema. Broken Cameras, is a very amazing and important film. Some others: Pulp Fiction, Amélie, Almost Famous, City of God, My Life as a Dog, Shawshank Redemption, Spirited Away, Akiro, etc..

Music
Well...you'll just have to ask me. In brief, I like everything from Delta Blues Folk to Deep House to Gypsy Jazz
Six things I could never do without
Love
Sex
Passion
Spirituality
Art
Compassion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
philosophy
anthropology
sex positivity
all the possible ways to love
alternative societies
genderblending
relationships
polyamory

whether humanity is a fruit or infection of the earth
On a typical Friday night I am
Howling at the moon
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me anything
You should message me if
I'm seeking passionate, independent people. I want authenticity. So just be you, ok?

Also, it seems to be necessary; don't bother messaging me if you're not interested in hanging out. Or if you're far away and want to be a long distance pen pal, say so. I'm very disinterested in shallow correspondences that stretch on for weeks and are only composed of what you ate for lunch yesterday, or what kind of music you like, or blah blah. Let's get to know each other in person. If you're not looking for this, then keep browsin'!

Let's use this as a conduit to meet interesting people--not a crutch for living in a fictitious world ;)
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