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My self-summary
I'm looking for the real deal. A life partner. Someone to travel the world with and then come home and cuddle so hard!

Civil rights lawyer by day. Day tripper and nature lover at heart. Artistic, with a designer's eye and love of beauty. Fun/funny, loving and compassionate.

I'm inspired by acts of loving kindness, exhilarated by good design and architecture.

One of the silly sayings I like is "must be present to win" beause sometimes the hardest part is just showing up. Mentally, physically, emotionally.

A big part of my life is my passion for civil rights/social justice, which I am very fortunate to express fully in my job every day... and while my work can sometimes be challenging, it makes me all the more appreciative for what I've got. I'm a lawyer representing kids who've been handed the shittiest of hands and I can't even imagine how they've persevered. Preach!

Absolutely LOVE taking day trips to Pt. Reyes, Santa Cruz mountains, Big Sur, and hiking anywhere! Planning a weekend trip to Mendocino for my grandma's 93rd birthday. She instilled such a love of nature in my bones. The closest I feel to "religion" is in nature.

I love to explore my native San Francisco neighborhoods - yes, I'm a rare gem being born in SF and all.*

* So right now I'm living an hour south of SF in San Jose for work. I consider it my M-F dwelling to keep me sane from having to commute every single day but I'm in SF or Oakland just about every weekend. I live in an awesome converted water tower/cottage down here with an orchard in the backyard and it's a pretty sweet place to come home to when I'm exhausted from work.
What I’m doing with my life
By day I represent kids in the foster care system. By night I secretly plan my escape to a career of interior design and landscape architecture. On the weekends I go outside and get crafty.

But we shouldn't identify ourselves by our careers. Just because I don't let my freak-flag fly in court amongst the civilians doesn't mean it's not a core part of who I am. Think Superman.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my laugh, and my snarky sense of humor (which is really my way of testing how much I'll like you).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
On my bookshelf you'll see Howard Zinn, Barbara Ehrenreich, Beth Lisick, Augusten Burroughs, David Sedaris, Eric Schlosser, Michael Pollen, Anne Lamott, Michael Moore, and Mark Bittman. Lots of books about cacti. I just adore Carrie Brownstein, Louis CK, Marc Maron, Jenny Slate, and Margaret Cho! P.S. Margaret Cho loves me.

Broad City, Master of None, Insecure, Mozart in the Jungle, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, F is for Family, One Mississippi, Transparent, and Difficult People. And Garkfunkle and Oats comedy specials.

Music-wise, The Tuneyards, The Julie Ruin, Double Dutchess, Radiohead, The Magnetic Fields, The Shins, Kimya Dawson, Ozomatli, Ryan Montbleau Band, Regina Spektor, Iron & Wine, Gillian Welch, Rufus Wainwright, Paul Simon, India Arie, Blackalicious, Belle & Sebastian, Cibo Matto, Amy Winehouse, DeVotchKa, some (but not all) Playa fare, anything booty-shakin'-licious!
Six things I could never do without
Human touch.
Walking shoes.
My iPhone (god, I hate myself for drinking the kool-aid).
Sushi, and the baked sea bass & mango CRACK from Sushi Zone (shh - it's a secret).
My family (yes, they're on the list but they're after sushi).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make over all of my friends' dwellings. How to get my own place on How to treat people well - first for myself, then on a global level. What the point of it all is. Where I should hike next. Photography.
On a typical Friday night I am
Honestly, I'm usually pretty beat by Friday night and just want to relax, work in my garden, watch a movie, or read. I prefer taking it easy on Friday so I can get up early on Saturday and head up to SF, down to Santa Cruz, or wherever and have a full day!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once literally set my ass on fire on a first date. You can't take me anywhere!
You should message me if
You like what you see and what you've read and you think we might make each other laugh, think, and grow!
The two of us