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My self-summary
Hi, you who are reading this now. Thanks for reading and welcome to my profile! :-)

I'm Brien Lee. And you know who you are. I'm looking for a serious life partner who is ready for a committed relationship now. Your past is not important to me. Our pasts made you and I who we are today, so it is something we can be grateful for, I suppose.

I'm not yet considered wealthy but I'm getting there. I just started my own corporate training business so I have flexible time. This means I'll be happy to devote my time towards getting to know you better and if we click, towards building a caring and long lasting relationship together with you. Yes you. If we click with a loud and reassuring CLICK!

I'm NOT looking for someone to chat online. I'm NOT looking for a pen pal. I'm looking for someone who is ready for exploring if we are meant to be together in this life. Yes, crossing the 40 year old mark does that to you.

I don't smoke. I very, very rarely drink alcohol (though I've tasted wine in Switzerland and Sake in Japan). I don't gamble. And as far as I'm aware, I don't have a temper. All this means that I'll be more able to keep my mind clear and always treat you with respect and care, as a human being and as my treasured partner in this adventure called Life.

If you're still reading this, well done! In this age of short attention spans and TLDRs (yeah, I just found out what that means recently), it's a wonderful thing!

I value peace. I live and let live. I'm not much of a control freak. You live the best life you know, and I'll respect your choices whether I agree with them or not. Hopefully, you'll have the same outlook towards me.

I also live a relatively simple life. My usual dinners are just baked brocolli and baked eggs. I do my best to eat healthily. I regularly go to the gym.

I meditate whenever I can. I'm a very practical Buddhist. I don't subscribe to rites and rituals and superstitions. I practice the Buddhist Five Precepts as consistently as I can since I was 15. And I have a logical view of things (well, being a trained scientist with a degree in Genetics and a Masters in Botany does do that to a person).

I'm a student of Life. I read a lot. And also laugh a lot. I learn new things for the sole reason that it gives me a good warm feeling inside. I cook. I eat. I travel. I drive for the sake of seeing what I can.

I spend time with friends because 70 or 80 years is just too short. I play with my nephews and nieces just to remember what family feels like and to remember to smile just because its a wonderful way to live life, isn't it?

Sometimes, I look at the skies and the clouds and the trees and wonder where she is.. the one for me...

So if you feel the same, and think there's a bright, shining wishing star somewhere out in the universe with our names on it, please message me and we'll find out. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
I love the feel of a book in my hands as I wander and wonder through the worlds within it. The smell and taste of hot coffee is an optional companion on such journeys although I'm not too fussy. Hot chocolate, Milo and tea would be just as wonderful. I also love the feel of pen on paper (literally) as I write and wait to see what comes out of the experience. Its pretty much like doodling, where your logical mind just takes a break only to be pleasantly surprised at the results a few minutes, or hours, later. Pretty much like walking in the quiet woods only to walk into the dazzling sights and sounds of a magnificent waterfall. Oftentimes I'd read the other "books" too. Those that walk, talk, laugh and cry, and are constantly writing and rewriting their own stories as each day passes. When it comes to people, some say truth is stranger than fiction and I agree. So the next time you're with another person, give him or her your full attention and you'll be pleasantly surprised (or horrified) at what you'll actually find. This works with pets and babies too! And lest you think I lean more towards the organic lifeforms, technology is another of my loves. After all, if you look closely enough, there is a very thin line between the two.
I’m really good at
being where I am, contented and at peace. I'm also really good at going full steam ahead, creating a new better future for myself and those around me.
The first things people usually notice about me
... I don't know. I haven't asked them this question.. hmm...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by the late, great Douglas Adams, Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett, the guy who wrote "5 people you meet in heaven", Bill Bryson, HH The Dalai Lama, Krishnamurthi, etc. I also like the autobiographies of Mahatma Gandhi and Lim Goh Tong. And I have a pretty decent collection of business books ranging from management to Selling to Neuro Linguistic Programming. I also love Pachelbel's Canon in D, The theme from "Once upon a time in China", Brahm's Lullaby, "Lady" by Kenny Rogers and "Lady" by John Denver, Anything by Paul Simon, Eric Clapton, Sting and Chris De Burgh, The "Kuch Kuch Hota Hei" soundtrack
Six things I could never do without
A Sense Of Humour
Inner Peace
The Internet
A Smile
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Specific ways I can make my world and the worlds of those around me happier ones
You should message me if
you just feel like doing so. One never knows what one really wants sometimes or even why and it doesn't matter really, and when there is a nudge or a hint or a feeling somewhere inside that one should give it a go, then go and give it all you've got! Message me now or later but sooner is usually better than later, is it not? :D
The two of us